u/Past-Meal-4847

Or am I the lucky one

What are they

Yesterdays my dad travelled from churchgate to malad. As soon he reached he fell down on bed said his biggest regret of his life was to not take an uber

His face was exhausted black and he had zero strength or energy in his body

He was in extreme pain all night

I have never seen him like this all my life

He's 62.

We are litreally getting slaughtered out here nobody talks about it

My friend stays in Bangalore and came here for job. She legit said she can't wait to go back and she regrets comming here

She said it takes 80k rent in good parts of powai.

She said bangalore cost 25k for 2 people in 2hbk in a good locality

Used gemini for formatting and grammar

My friend (31M) and I went to the same junior college. When he was 21, he moved to Canada and lived there for about seven years. He's a pretty average guy—around 5'10"—with a body count of roughly 17.

Since coming back, he's pointed out some major differences between the dating and casual relationship scenes in India versus Canada:

People are very trusting and straightforward: Women are quite open about wanting casual relationships and will tell you what they want right from the start.

Women approach men frequently: Even when he was working at a local store, he got approached often. If a woman likes you, she’ll make a move regardless of social status—even a highly successful woman wouldn't hesitate to approach a waiter.

Dating apps yield much better results: He used to get matches constantly in Canada, whereas here in India, he gets absolutely zero.

Public spaces are more social: Women are generally friendlier and much more open to meeting guys in malls, pubs, bars, and cafes.

The dating scene is significantly harder here: Overall, he finds it way more difficult to date or meet women in India. In fact, he told me that since a guy like me is already "killing it" here, I would pull monstrous numbers in Canada or anywhere abroad.