r/ThirtiesMumbai

This is 30M here from Mumbai. Anyone interested in watching Drishyam 3 in Malayalam. Please do DM.

Call me a little kid. I do not care. I’m 33 a regular guy navigating the usual corporate grind...family calls about beta shaadi kab? and the pressure to always act mature and sorted.

But here’s my little secret that keeps me sane and smiling.I still watch 90 s cartoons. DuckTales, Swat Kats the most badass toon ever made.. Johnny Quest ...Looney Tunes, Powerpuff Girls, Samurai Jack, Aladdin, Talespin, Jimmy Neutron even old Doordarshan gems like Mowgli. The moment that familiar theme music hits, that warm nostalgic rush floods in and suddenly I'm 10 years old again sitting on the floor with Maggi and zero worries.

It feels like the warmest hug to my inner child. In a world constantly telling us to grow up and be responsible choosing these simple joys is how I practice loving myself. No guilt, no “this is childish” just pure unfiltered happiness whenever I get time. Mood lifts and I return to real life feeling lighter and more creative.

Who else in their 30s secretly or openly goes back to these childhood cartoons for comfort? Whats your go to Johnny Bravo, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Powerpuff Girls or something else? Drop your favourites and let’s relive that magic together ❤️

What you have to remember about the past is that it literally DOESN'T exist. It exists ONLY in your mind, your memories. No more real than a daydream is. What you also have to remember is that your memories are most likely not as accurate as you think they are. They are colored by your emotions and how you were feeling and colored by your memory itself. Your mind exaggerates some things and totally forgets other things. Someone else who experienced the exact same thing as you most likely remembers it much differently. Memories are NOT accurate and CANNOT be trusted. We gain our sense of self from our memories. We decide who we are because of our memories. We write a story about our life and tell ourselves that story to form our sense of self. Because the past doesn't exist anymore and what you remember happening probably didn't happen the way you remember at all, you can rewrite it. Rewrite the story you tell about yourself to yourself. Rewrite your personal story and rewrite your past and you rewrite yourself.

Hey guys, just venting
I have recently lost job stuck at small home with 4 people with fights on and off, no financial backup dont have anything to show up for marriage so many health issues and no motivation to move forward. I have friends but no one talk about actual feelings, sometimes i cry myself to sleep sometimes i dont even feel anything. this age is just killing the shit out of me idk what should i be doing. I just wanted to share my thoughts since its way too long i have not spoken to anyone about what actually matters/feel... thank you for reading :)

Recently got selected in pps ( state DSP ).This thing came after n number of failures in upsc,failed to make it in IPS.Life felt so unfair at tht point in life despite all the efforts things didn't materialise the way they were desired.Now can really related to Buddha's saying "Desire is the cause of suffering".

Some questions have no answers,perhaps how this life is ! And at times no matter how much hard work you put it ,destiny overrides !! Just felt like sharing.

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Lost a friend recently and have been down ever since. Wanted to find a reason to feel a bit better. So I am asking all of you guys.

It is often said that we have to look for reasons to be happy, and I believe we need it more in today's world. So, what is it that made you smile or happy today ? It could be anything small or big. Let us share each others happiness and spread some positive vibes.

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I am thinking to organise a house villa party in the coming week (with a balanced gender ratio). Date 30th May weekend. Will need minimum 10 people. Drop a comment or DM me.

Amidst all the ambition, independence, and everything I’ve built for myself, there’s still this quiet need — to find someone with whom I can truly be myself and eventually build a life with.
I’m a 30F based in India, someone who’s quite independent, has travelled solo (both within India and internationally), and enjoys a mix of things — from café hopping, reading, and long conversations over tea… to randomly being in a new city, a little drunk, and just enjoying the moment.
I’m looking for a man in his late 20s to early 30s who is:
Open-minded
Strong-willed
Emotionally grounded
Non-smoker (non-negotiable)
Vegetarian (non-negotiable)
Lives independently , has their own place for us to hangout, I m not interested in staying in random hotels. ( non- negotiable)
I drink occasionally just being transparent
Ideally has his own vehicle ( optional)
Stays in Mumbai , cause I don’t do long distance

I don’t care about your past — that’s yours. What matters to me is whether our thoughts, values, and way of living align in the present.If you are someone who likes to ask bodycount or just beg for sending pics , stay the hell away. I don’t welcome creep energy.

I m a well earning individual who works in a reputed firm,and have worked really hard for it . And hence finally allowing myself to ask for precisely for what I want.

I love to travel a lot and explore new cafes and just be lazy ,if you just like to stay at home all the time, stay away.

I come from a Hindu/Baniya background and would ideally prefer someone from a similar space, mostly because it makes life easier for families — though I’m not rigid beyond that.

I don’t have a long checklist, but I do believe in being with someone who:
shows up
takes responsibility
and believes in protecting and standing by their partner

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out.
If you don’t meet the basic conditions mentioned above, please don’t waste either of our time — I’m quite clear about what I want.

Education: B.E. in Electronics & Telecommunication

Experience: • 2 years of Customer Service experience • 2 years of Manual Testing (QA) experience

I am a quick learner, hardworking, and available to join immediately. Open to remote roles in testing, support, customer service, or other non-technical domains as well.

Any help or referral would be greatly appreciated

Is there a hack? Handsome looking male at this age is rare af. And I have dated men in great shape only. What to do? I’d like to have romantic relationships too but I dont think it’s possible with someone I am not attracted to. Men have it easy they just date younger women

Edit: Whats the best mutton curry or chicken curry restaurant to order from in swiggy. Spicy one

Edit 2: Upvote if you understand my post cause although this is a 30s subs, haters are many

Edit 3: People who religiously downvote me. I am not happy with your behaviour

Going through the worst phase of life... Need someone to talk, hug, cry, laugh and forget the world for few hours...

Funny story.

A few days back, my dad got Lassi for us to drink. He kept it in the fridge. Later that day, I opened the fridge, saw the Lassi pouch, poured myself a glass and enjoyed the Lassi.

The next day, I opened the fridge again, saw the Lassi pouch, and thought I'll have one more glass. I started taking sips, but it wasn't tasting sweet. It wasn't tasting bad, but it wasn't tasting sweet either. I was wondering what happened, the Lassi was tasting pleasant yesterday. Anyways, I still managed to empty the full glass.

The next day, my family was looking for the curd which we had. That's when they found the lassi. Apparently, there was 1 pouch of lassi and 1 pouch of curd in the fridge. I got them mixed up and had an entire full glass of Curd in one go, but it never occurred to me that it is curd.