r/ThirtiesMumbai

I don't know why... but this loneliness is getting heavier day by day.

This rainy weekend I was sitting alone at Marine Drive. Everywhere I looked, people were laughing, holding hands, enjoying with friends, making memories.

And there was me... just watching.

I don't need hundreds of friends or random people. I just wish I had someone to talk to, share my day with, or just sit in silence.

Sometimes I open my phone hoping for a message... but there's nothing.

Mumbai is full of people, yet I have never felt this alone.

Being in your 30s means you should be mature or at least try to be more mature. I am like that for 90% of the time but I did something to spite someone which I am both proud of and not so proud of. So I have an old friend like I know the guy from 3rd standard who always likes to comment on my weight. I have been chubby since childhood so I am used to such comments and I don't get bothered that much but this guy never gives up a single opportunity to put me down. He decided to move to another city around 2 years ago and my friends decided to do a quick catch up since we may not meet soon.... He commented on my weight over there too... I got annoyed this time and I lost some weight in 2 years and kept it an absolute secret. Yesterday, my friend's group met once again as this guy is moving back .... Now this guy has gained some weight as he was away from home and I commented in the same way that he used to comment... Now I can see the embarrassment in his eyes that I felt for the last 15+ years.... I know it's a petty thing to do but I feel damn good

Helloo m22 here, I mean I wanted to be with someone older than mee 👉👈

With all respect and love...

#not here to disrespect someone..

When I came to Mumbai I had this feel maybe now I'll have someone to whom I can talk when ever I want I can share the inner most feelings and pain to that particular person and make someone feel that they'll be loved unconditionally but even in the worse days this loneliness kills.. People mostly go for NSFW and get girls where I just wanted a shoulder ti rest on and feel that I am not alone.. Fuck what can I say.. Just tired of everything everyone. Those lonely walks ok Juhu, checking phone with no msgs either of family or friends.. Feels like I can write a book about being alone and still won't be able to sell a single copy becuz even in that case I'll remain alone 🤣

If no then why not ?

35 M4F near Juhu, currently at Bar Stock Exchange. Any one up for a meet?

Hey, I am at a point in my life where everything feels stagnant especially connections with people that I’ve had over the years. I’d like to meet new people who are open to genuine friendship, hanging out, grabbing a few drinks together over friendly banter, and exploring life as we know it. I am 35, gay and open to new possibilities. Hit me up if you’d like to start somewhere.

If you are up for it , you know the drill ...

Somewhere in Sudan, Palestine, iran, Afghanistan, Iraq or Congo, there is a boy smarter than me.

He is more disciplined, more resilient, ano holds more potential in his single finger than I do in my entire career.

The only difference? I am siting in a train and he is sting in the rubble of his dreams.

My "bad days" are his wildest dreams.

My "burnout" is a luxury he can't afford because his only job is staying alive.

It's geographical luck and it's a haunting injustice that we all refuse to acknowledge and look away.

Planning to leave early from office. Anyone up for coffee or drinks in BKC around 5pm? End time: 6.30pm..

FYI- 33F. not looking to date. But I need smart people around me. Thats my topmost priority in life. Where do smart people in Bombay hangout? How do you spend time? What are you reading?

Intellect for me is neural plasticity and authenticity. Being well read and knowledgeable.

It feels like everything has gotten too costly.

You can't eat a meal for 2 from swiggy below 300-400/-

You make any small purchase and lot money is vanished.

A decent shirt doesn't come below 1-1.5k, girls clothing even more costlier.

10-20-50 Rs are now like chillar coins

Is it true or is it is me only

Hey asking my fellow thirties pet parents!
How to convince my dog that it is red alert outside and we can’t risk our lives over a falling tree.
Also he was perfectly poo poo trained at home for 9 months but now doesn’t listen doing at washroom especially when we want him to do so (especially in such circumstances).

What’s everyone doing?

Guys, need some new pic for ykw
So can someone help me out. Sort of travel and click some new ✌🏼

one of the single greatest tactic for your social life is the concept of "assumed familiarity". once you know this concept you notice it in every charismatic person

just act like you've known others for years already

breaks ice and calms nerves of others quite quickly

It's a great trait and not just in romantic relations but across the board. Some people of course will take offence at the familiar tone.

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