r/WomenAreNotIntoMen

One argument I could see is it making women feel more comfortable here if they knew there were women mods. But I don't think it would make any practical difference.

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I find it so strange that the MANIW sub basically doesn't wanna hear ANYTHING from a man (whether they support them or not) while on this sub a woman's opinion is met with some skepticism yes, but also met with people trying to engage with the woman's takes in a way that tries to foster some level of dialogue rather than shutting down any method of communication or understanding of the other side.

I saw a while ago this study that men are more tolerable of different ideologies from others that disagree with them where as women are far less tolerable of ideologies that differ from theirs ever so slightly, even if the disagreers are on the same side as them, just taking a different approach. (And someone will probably fact check me with that link or something) but I wonder if that's kinda related or not, and also why the opposite sub is VEHEMENTLY against any push back or questioning the premise of their sub while a lot of you guys have no problems answering questions from those who genuinely ask about the way things are for you on here.

I have a boyfriend, and he really treats me well. He always tells me I’m the prettiest girl ever. But today, I checked his watch history and liked videos on TikTok, and I noticed that he has liked several videos of girls showing their bodies, doing makeup, cosplays, etc. He’s also viewed some girls’ accounts from their videos on his FYP and watched their other videos too.
It made me feel really weird. Does this mean he was interested in them?
I didn’t like seeing that, and honestly, I don’t even want to claim him as my man because it’s just so embarrassing as a girlfriend. I don’t want a man who can’t even control himself from liking random girls’ videos.
Can you tell me if I’m being toxic or if this is his fault? I’m in love with him, and every other guy is unattractive to me, but after seeing this, I don’t think it’s the same for him. Do guys still find other women attractive or feel interested in other women even when they’re in love with their girlfriend?
Should I break up with him?

When I I first joined this subreddit to where I am now is night and day it's been a year of revelation and understanding. I hope everyone who reads this message is at peace with themselves and has accepted the message of this subreddit

It's been nothing but an awakening not to sound corny but eventually you actually accept it and just move on with your life. It is what it is.

Women say this supposedly because men treat them poorly, but gay men are treated much worse because of their sexuality and still feel unconditional love for men. The problem is that all women simply have lesbian tendencies. Remember the study according to which all women are either bisexual or lesbian. That is, women do not exist without attraction to women. I believe that all women are simply gravitate to lesbianism like a magnet, regardless of orientation. Therefore, heterosexual women saying that they want to become lesbians is a manifestation of their natural attraction to lesbianism.

I’m a 36 year old guy. Always been primarily attracted to women, but nothing ever really happened with them. I tried in different ways, but they simply never really showed an interest.

After 36 years of being lonely I finally decided to try things with men. I’m not really attracted to men all that much, but I still wanted at least some connection.

It was incredibly to experience how relatively easy it was for me to find men who welcomed me and showed affection. So many years of searching a woman without succes, and with little effort I can find plenty of men.

I have mixed feelings. I’m glad that I have found a way to be intimate with other people, but it does so clearly show how women feel about men. I wish things were different.

A slightly different haircut, slightly above ideal bodyfat, too short, too tall, weird proportions, too much muscle, not enough muscle, too much body hair, the "wrong" age.

I think a lot of female attraction is so narrow like that. There's no universally agreed upon "sexy man" concept, and there's no early exposure to the male body in a sexual way. My most defining sexual moment was seeing my 19 year old neighbor naked from his window when I was 14 and I've never recovered. I'm older now, and am only attracted to men that look vaguely like him, and many other women share similar stories. Lack of erotic exposure, and what little exposure there was formed a fetish that no man could realistically meet.

It's not that women aren't into men, it's that all women have a fetishistic ideal of what a man is or should be. Sexual attraction is partially biological, but largely social, and there is no socially acceptable way to sexualize a man

I don’t blame them as a woman, because after deconstructing the conventional notion that you need a romantic partner to be eternally happy and going through a somewhat romantic situationship , I 100% would chose platonic female friendships over romantic relationships with men.

The quality of platonic friendships with females are so much more fulfilling and worth it as opposed to relationships with males.

They’ve cracked the code before us all because we were indoctrinated and used as pawns for manipulation.