The overwhelmingly majority of women choose the polar bear but men don’t to like that answer. They argue men are safer. What would u pick in that scenario
Could you not argue that women have principle of least interest and that having to be the one to woo someone is kinda lower status in a way? I dunno are men all that different to those birds that have to do wacky dances?
I feel like I genuinely won't be happy in a relationship with a woman if her attraction to me is non-existent in comparison, and there's no way I'm gonna somehow find myself the 0.1% woman who is both heterosexual and genuinely likes sex.
So I'm just curious if there's any strides that the scientific community is making to make some kind of suppliment or whatever that I could use to lower my libido or attraction. It seems like the things we have right now either require me to transition or is very bad for my health. I'm a young adult male
And I'm also curious what your guys' plan is if you believe in WANIM. Do you plan to opt out of relationships entirely or what. I plan to just opt out if I can't find a way for this to work.
Seriously in relation to this sub it actually makes sense. Come to think of it outliers are actually the ones who women are attracted to when it comes to men tall, attractive or whatever. Then every rule in the book goes out of the window for women, every available hatred for the men that engage with women or men who never even had a single experience women are put into a mold of standards or hate, the autogynephilia shit. I genuinely want u sit down and analyze this it actually makes FUCKIN SENSE
We gotta be more careful around here.
A little out of topic but forget it
A few topics I'll cover right now
- On average women are better looking than men
- Femininity is glorified, s3xual!zed and supported a million times more
- the looks distribution in general is bad (catch any good looking women on the street and go look at her brother)( ex. Sydney sweeney and her brother where she is wanted worldwide while the brother looks like a construction worker)
- Some Men have no standards at all
- Chads don't settle in general
- Some Men have standards, are confident about their looks and settle boundaries that alot of vvmen hate
Anyways back to the main part, y'all may have seen those tiktoks where alot of women admit that they purposely date non attractive men to boost their ego, you can find posts like that on this sub or just believe me
Some women use this way to settle down for the time being, could be retired h03s, OF women, etc, where they will purposely give a chance to a non attractive guy as first of all they think they're "lucky" for getting her and second Chads do not settle in general and alot of women hate when men are confident about their looks, have standards unlike the oofy doofys i just mentioned who think they're lucky to get her and will worship her for that
These type of relationships are then pushed and supported by everyone on the internet, both men and women, like just go under any reels or tiktoks of a couple like these
Women in general will casual dehumanize the absolute shit out of the guy with comments like
"Queen, is that thing bothering you"
"I can be a better bf"
"Is it bothering you"
"no man deserves this"
Men ofcourse thinking he's "lucky" to get a girl
"Should've been me"
"God, what am I doing wrong"
"he doesn't deserve this"
This helps those women get their ego boost, if you'll notice, alot of them literally heart those comments of their bfs being insulted like that, like who does that? Well they do that cause as I said they just proved the social idea that, "women date down" and bless men with their looks and are supposed to be the gender which "doesn't care about looks" when alot of these relationships are literal contracts for social media and manipulating teens on the internet to this being the average relationship
These oofy doofy men are used as the target and get all the hate thrown at them while those women get away with it cause ofc she's "blessing" society and "manosphere" by doing that when again it's a contract and for those dudes, as painful and humiliating it sounds for those dudes, they just don't care cause they have the women and that's all that matters to them, any h@te, criticism is non-existent as long as they get the performative and fake love from them
It's all just messy
So basically, a person I know has been sending me posts from this subreddit for quite some time and whenever I open them, it's always some absolutely cherry-picked ragebait tweets or just personal experience, which drives me mad. I'm really open new ideas, but it seems like there is no real evidence backed by science, only emotions. So if you have any research or any actual numbers related to men/women relationships, attraction and interaction that prove that WANIM, feel free to share them here.
Link to tweet: https://x.com/cessonmute/status/2055657030606889130
Kind of interesting when you think about it.
If the sub has around 20k weekly visitors, you’d expect at least some posts to consistently cross 1k upvotes. But that almost never happens.
So what’s going on here?
Is it that most people are just lurking and not engaging?
Or is it that fewer people actually agree with the content than it seems?
Because let’s be honest, if the narrative here was more socially acceptable or aligned with what people are comfortable agreeing with, the engagement would likely be much higher.
Not saying one way or the other, but the gap between traffic and engagement is noticeable.
Very depressing footage tbh
They told you that women and men are equally attracted to each other. But for all of us at some point it began to become clear it was a lie. Maybe it was always there to some extent. I think the idea for instance that beauty is a feminine trait and that rape is something mostly done by men to women is something a lot of people are able to subconsciously pick up by puberty even if they were never told.
Getting exposed to sexual/romantic-dynamics whether by in person experience or exposure through media seems to be the main culprit for becoming susceptible to this ideology. For instance growing up I saw media that said that within heterosexuality women hold leverage over short term relationships (mainly hook ups) while men hold leverage for long term relationships. However, this became undeniably false when I began to listen to men's lived experiences and they came to a consensus that they can not find long term partners while women came to the consensus that men need to stop falling in love with them. For these women have men falling in love with them for simply just interacting with them to the point that it is a near universal experience for women with male friends to have at least one confess. At which point it becomes clear that women hold leverage over all forms of sex and relationship. And upon examination of society you begin to really notice.
And just so much more
You will never see a male-female interaction the same again. Every time you see a heterosexal relationship you will know that the woman holds the power by the principle of least interest. When you understand how women see men you will never want to be in their field of view due to the knowledge that she sees you as a pervert. You will see it every time your male peers complain about lack of female attention while your female peers complain about how many men hit on, ask out, and fall in love with her. Truly you will see that WANIM is not just about noticing, but rather is an entire worldview and once you accept the truth you will realize you do not live in the world you thought you did