u/No_Swimmer_6820

When my husband and I were dating, he moved in with me. I live in a very conservative area and he was the first very liberal man i have dated. I remember thinking and saying to him that i'll have to lock him up, because girls my age are gonna love him. This was just a joke, but it has a truth to it. My husband still doesn't understand why I said that and we recently had a conversation with friends and all the men had no idea what I meant. The women on the other hand completely got it.

My husband is and always has been handsome. But if you wanna be completely technical, he has average features. He is tall, a little pale and has dark hair. But there is something about him. For one, he grew up with ONLY women arround him. Lesbian moms, only sisters, literally no male family members. Then he is kinda quiet and always calm. He's very passionate in politics and very liberal. He admits if he doesn't know something instead of immediately forming an opinion.

I met him on a vacation with friends and I saw him helping a elderly woman carrying her cup of coffee up some stairs. When he came back to the house we had rented, he didn't even mention that. He didn't know I saw him but he didn't brag about it or anything. That might be normal but.. this made me see him in a different light.

It's his compassion and his empathy that makes him such a attractive person. People notice that. Yet he and every other man we know wouldn't catch that as a thing that attracts women. They seem to have no idea.

My husband said "why would I be so attractive to people? just because i'm tall?" and then proceeds to explain he doesn't workout, got a little belly since we married and doesn't really have a desire to have children.

My dude. THIS IS WHY. You love to eat, you love what I bake and you are aware of what it would mean to raise children and aren't totally fixated on it, expecting me to do all the work. He drove a friend home last month when she wasn't feeling well, came back a little late and proceeded to show me the pictures of her kittens he just met.

EDIT: Just for some context I told him there are barely any not conservative men in this area, so if word gets out that he is not only liberal, but tall, respectful AND knows how to eat pussy, i'm gonna have to beat the ladies off with a stick or lock him up. It was a joke.

I live in an undisclosed second-world country, and man, living here will blackpill you for life. Even Western-cels would be surprised by how brutal things are here. I'm a broke college student who's 5'10 1/2 -5'11" (average to slightly above-average height here) and would probably be rated LTN or MTN on .org. Bro, the women here are just as hypergamous and just as likely to divorce you as first-world women, except you don't get to enjoy any of the same benefits.

All of my friends are in a similar boat. The only guys who can pull women here are 6ft+ HTN/CL guys or rich-as-hell normies.

I've tried asking out overweight women, older women, and even some of my female friends. Every single one rejected me, and apparently all of them have boyfriends.

On top of that, I have nothing going on in my life, and the job market here is pretty terrible. So it's unlikely that my life will ever amount to anything significant. At this point, I'd consider my life a success if I don't end up broke like my parents and wind up beta-buxxing for some LTB woman.

The boomers here are also some of the most blue-pilled people imaginable. They'll gaslight the hell out of you and then blame you for your situation. Rehab was right when he said parenting licenses should only be given to suitable candidates.

A life spent in hell would be better than whatever the hell this is. The only thing that's somewhat funny—in a dark, nihilistic sort of way—is that I still live an objectively better life than 50% of the world's population. Brutal stuff, man.

Like this sub makes sense 90% of the time. . It's obvious to everyone that women have massively lower libido than men and in turn their desire to be with men is obviously much lower. It's also true that most heterosexual relationships are influenced by comphet/desire to settle with the opposite sex under societal pressure/patriarchy. It's also true that studies indicate women's arousal to sexual stimuli is less dependent on gender than men's and are also way more sexually fluid than men. It's also true that average woman is not attracted to the average man beyond what he can provide momentarily. But trying to dismiss all of women's attraction to even extremely attractive men as comphet and even denying the bp is delusional and will get you debunked . Attractive serial killers are literally lusted after purely for their facial features(there's no reason for this to be due to comphet) . Further, trying to arguing for extremes only dilutes the actual good and scientific points the sub makes and only harms our credibility.