r/cognitiveTesting

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35F SAHM, looking for others with a similar brain/life situation

Hoping to find a few people whose profile is similar to mine and might be in a similar situation.

Life:
SAHM since I was 19, professional gigging musician since 17. I’m 35 now. Diagnosed ADHD (combined but mostly inattentive).

Four neurodivergent kids, all AuDHD. Was a gigging musician for years which I enjoyed but had to scale back for the kids’ health stuff. Husband’s moving to a 4 day week soon so I’m about to have a bit of breathing room for the first time in honestly forever, and I’m trying to figure out what to do with it.

Where I’m at:
I love my kids, and I do genuinely believe parenting is valuable work. But I can’t shake the feeling that I’m unfulfilled and a bit wasted at home. The boredom is constant. I feel like I’m losing time I won’t get back, and it doesn’t seem to matter how much I rationally know that raising four ND kids matters, the feeling of something’s not right here for me just doesn’t go away.

My brain just generates full ideas constantly. Love problem solving and fixing things. World builds for fun. Makes things, music, flower arrangements, full on art installations for family parties. Picks up most skills fast which sounds great but makes it really hard to know what to actually focus on. Reads people quickly. Hates repetition. Suffocates in the sameness of domestic life even though I love being there for the kids.

I struggle socially - because I sound like I’m jumping about a topic when I’m talking and I struggle to articulate what I can see in my head. I’m Not sure how to get any of these ideas from my head into a format that I can share with others, unless I just go ahead and build/make the thing I can see. Which is fine if it’s something tangible I can physically make, but harder if it’s a business idea or a story. I can’t seem to get the whole “thing” into a sequential set of steps or fine where to begin at anything.

I took this to try and understand what I’m good at a bit better and where I might be able to go from here in terms of strengths/weaknesses. I feel a bit on the older side to just be starting out career wise as well
And have kids to think about. Just not really sure where to begin!

Any advice from anyone in a similar situation would be great.

u/Blastoisealways — 10 hours ago

Do you think the decline of educational/cultural homogeneity has affected the "validity" of VCI?

I've had this thought ever since I first saw how IQ tests were scored but wanted to make this post here.

The main argument I've seen for why VCI is a "good index" is that it doesn't just measure your knowledge base but also implicitly measures your verbal reasoning/comprehension ability; the idea is that your verbal intelligence impacts your efficiency at picking up words and deeply understanding their meanings, and vocabulary tests are just a proxy for it. However, this argument seems to have its provenance in literature from multiple decades back, which makes me question how well it actually holds up today (and likewise with the analogous argument being made for general knowledge tests.)

Particularly, the effectiveness of vocabulary/GK tests as proxies for verbal reasoning/comprehension ability should be inversely related to the variance of the population's exposure to vocabulary and information (hence why VCI tests are considered invalid for non-native speakers); and I would argue that in the US, this variance has been significantly increased in the last few decades due to the decline of educational and cultural homogeneity, through two mechanisms:

  1. Changes in the education system (general dumbing down + increased specialization): in general, the American public education system has become significantly less rigorous in the past decades for a variety of reasons. In the past students were expected to study a certain "western canon" of literature, philosophy, and art, but nowadays that's entirely been done away with; with regards to general knowledge, even very basic things like geography and spelling are now totally absent from many schools. Moreover, the hypercompetitive nature of college admissions, job search, etc has made it so that students are incentivized to focus on maxxing out a niche very early on (enabled by the internet providing greater accessibility to academic resources), so nowadays you have people publishing research and founding startups in high school but almost no one actually pursuing a rigorous, well-rounded liberal arts education as was the standard in the past.
  2. The internet, and demographic shift: the US became remarkably culturally homogenous in the postwar period / latter half of the 1900s, with people generally consuming the same media, literature, entertainment, etc. However, due to the internet and social media, people nowadays are much more self-segregated and not only consume different media/entertainment but even are essentially living in completely different realities. I've seen a ton on discourse on Twitter from adults working with adolescents about how ridiculously culturally illiterate young people are nowadays. Not to mention, demographics: the US went from 90% white / 10% black not too long ago to less than 60% white currently (and <50% among younger generations), which naturally yields a decrease in cultural homogeneity, especially due to the tendency of minorities to establish their own "subcultures" through ethnic enclaves.

Tldr: I highly question the validity of vocabulary and general knowledge to be valid indicators of IQ in the modern day US, due to the remarkable decline in educational and cultural homogeneity, which in turn has led to massive variance in exposure to vocabulary and knowledge.

What are your thoughts on this?

(Finally, inb4 the accusations of cope: VCI is my highest subtest, so no I am not coping.)

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u/DependentPanic2169 — 10 hours ago

What's the realistic range of my iq ?

I am 20(M), i have always been questioned my intelligence for long time.

i have always struggled with studies, it's not like i am bad at academics, i actually topped in my high school in my class, it's just that i need too much hardwork to achieve acadmic success.

i came across this sub, and got to know about mensa Norway, mensa Denmark, mensa sweden iq tests. many people said that these are some best tests available online.

i gave the mensa Norway and got 118 for first time.

gave mensa Norway again and got 133 second time.

and then gave mensa Denmark online, and got 126

then gave mensa sweden online and got like 126 again.

now i am scared that if later tests i gave got improved by practice effects. and i am totally confused right now that what range i should consider for my iq ?

i am gonna have offline professional mensa iq test and WAIS IV test 6 months later. i hope it will clear everything.

but are these online mensa results inflated or deflated heavily? i wanna know your take on this and judgement based on your experience

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u/Hungry-Tradition83 — 8 hours ago

Pls answer me

the timed tests make me confused i get 121 in timed but in untimed test i feel comfortable and i can get 130_140+

What should i belive

And i have seemy hard sensory defects

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u/mnawor — 11 hours ago

I found diffrent answer on this question btw the answer is not A

In this question, when we look at the three squares in each row, and see if they are either 3 red, 5 blue, 5 yellow, or 3 yellow, 5 red, 5 blue, or 3 blue, 5 red, 5 yellow, the answer is A. What do you think of that perspective?

u/Simongetback — 17 hours ago
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Most G loaded professions outside of academics?

From cool stuff like fighter pilot or espionage to mundane stuff.

What about high paying jobs without degrees but as merit based as possible?

And yes of course G and IQ isn't everything.

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u/carrot1890 — 1 day ago

What college major and career would be good for a high verbal reasoning score, low working memory, and poor math skills?

I'm struggling. I've completely failed at environmental science, botany, computer science, and now business. Mostly because of abysmal math skills. I was going to get tested for dyscalculia eventually, but it was expensive and insurance didn't cover it. I did other cognitive testing back in 2024, including the WAIS, and my highest score was a 120 on the VRI. My WMI was 89. Total score was 104 with GAI at 106. I always got As in English literature, writing, philosophy, history, and art. Math was straight Fs and Ds all the time. Programming was impossible for me, too...I had to give up going into web dev. Trying to find a path.

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u/LordRevanofDarkness — 21 hours ago

Is Community Psychometrics legit?

Found the test off an old reddit thread and decided to take it, I've never done an IQ test before, is this a legit score?

u/citieswarOlive — 1 day ago
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Anyone done ASVAB/AQFT/GT testing and also knows their actual IQ?

Has anyone done military testing ASVAB and know their AFQT score as well as their true IQ score. If so, list your GT score as well. I’d like to see real world connections

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u/Gold-Math617 — 24 hours ago

WAIS IV results from 2013

I was administered the WAIS IV when I was 16 as a part of diagnostic testing for ADHD. The psychiatrist who administered the test, only gave me an FSIQ when she gave the results back, despite her noting the large discrepancy between my PS and PR.

Is there any reason she might have chosen to include the FSIQ instead of GAI? She never ended up diagnosing me with anything and instead said that “I just need to try harder to focus in school”.

u/normalguy-normalname — 22 hours ago

Should I take another test?

20M

Honestly, I just took it because why not; In conditions that I know were not the most optimal. While I know a 130 is a very strong score, I truly believe it to be higher.

Is it worthwhile to take it in conditions that are more optimal? Or would the re-test be skewed by me just taking one and knowing what to expect?

The conditions that I would change that I believe would lead to a more accurate score would be actually taking my Vyvanse, which I did not the day that I tried it - while also placing myself in a quiet environment where I am not being constantly being asked questions by people around me.

I'd appreciate any thoughts, thank you!

u/Racecarbob11 — 1 day ago

CORE FSIQ Determination

Hi! I just took the CORE test over the past couple days, but am a little confused at the resulting FSIQ and am wondering how it’s calculated. It’s a lot higher than many of the individual indexes, only below one of them, and is above all the other composite scores by a bit. As a STEM college student I also wasn’t sure if the more quantitative tests might be less accurate given I’ve done tons of work with numbers in general before, though didn’t really do anything special here. Quite curious, thanks!

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u/OddOutlandishness602 — 21 hours ago

Ein Rätsel, welches ich nicht gelöst bekomme…

Kann mir jemand freundlicherweise den Lösungsweg erklären?

Vielen Dank vorab!

Schönen Abend euch :)

u/Obstsalat4321 — 1 day ago

Prueba iq mal

Gente, yo el otro día estaba tomando una parte de una prueba de iq y llegó una de las partes que me tengo más confianza, que sería esta que ven en la foto de reconocimiento de patrones. Y lo que me pasó es que de repente muy al principio el psicólogo me corta y me dice que me equivoqué 3 veces y con eso ya te cortan, yo claramente me quedé muy extrañado y le pedí si podía revisar en lo que me equivoqué y una de esas es esta que está en la foto.

Les pregunto primero que nada, qué responderían ustedes?

Bueno yo claramente siendo las primeras del test (que suelen ir de más fácil a más difícil) respondí sin pensarlo mucho que la respuesta correcta era la 1, bueno resulta que según el libro la respuesta correcta es la 5 y yo tipo, que carajos???

Sinceramente no veo forma lógica en que haya un patrón que encaje mejor en el 5 que en el 1 y lo más raro es que las respuestas de prueba de la parte de parrones del libro están bien, así que sinceramente no se que pensar.

Ustedes que dicen, el libro está mal o hay algún patrón muy simple que no estoy viendo?

Is it true u dont have high iq if u listened to rap shit as a teenager? Even if its not cultural?

Ive seen people say ur low iq if u loved rao music or are a gangster which i think its not true there are geniuses who listen to rap probably and are gangsters

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u/Fair-Elk-1060 — 1 day ago

Is it fair to assume my IQ is 120?

I come from a country where the average IQ is 90. If my IQ is truly around 120, its particularly a very interesting feeling knowing im 30 points ahead of others.

I know reddit doesnt appreciate egotistic people, including posts like this, and i know you typically punish posts like this with downvotes.

However please spare me from that, as I am in no way trying to brag. I am being 100% genuine, im just feeling a little confident right now and I would seriously appreciate if someone genuinely tried to give me any assurance.

Or, if not, tell me honestly if I should not take these results seriously for X reason.

u/MasterDegree101 — 1 day ago