r/evilwomeninc

I feel like the past 15 or so years there's a big push to act like men are special recipients to unique problems because they need to counteract being the source of so many for women.

Not being allowed to cry isn't unique to men. Neither is losing a parent or being expected to thanklessly provide. Getting old is not unique to men. Feeling lonely is not unique to men. Heartbreak is not unique to men. Being treated differently as an adult vs a child is not unique to men. Having responsibilities is not unique to men.

Maybe they'd find more sympathy from humans if they stopped acting like human issues are profound tragedies reserved for them that only they understand. The constant victimhood from them while they actively make the world worse is exhausting and at this point I don't care about how they feel experiencing normal things.

is this the right place for this?

my husband hasn’t washed the rug in my getting ready room, which includes the cat litter box. I’ve asked him to for weeks but he does everything except that.

The problem? I have a 6 month old who is able to squirm off his playmat now and until he washes the rug, I can’t set up the playpen and get the litter box moved (household logistics and not wanting to put the open floor playpen on a dirty rug)

Today I made into lay face down on the rug to prove a thing after he started arguing with me about MY preferences in completing MY (unrelated) project.

He did what he was told and went face down on the rug but when I told him to lick it, he refused!

I asked him why not and he said it was “disgusting.”

“Oh, so it’s fine for our son to lick but not you?”

😏

At that point he angrily got up and said he wasn’t going to play my little game because he had more self-respect than that.

“But not enough self-respect to keep cat litter out of your baby son’s mouth” is what I left it at before walking out to the porch.

He tried to come out and “talk to me about the project”

No man is going to dominate me in the manner of his choosing, if he is not also willing to be dominated in the manner of MY choosing.

I am outside taking the last of my mama break while the baby sleeps. I think I hear the vacuum running.

Please give me more evil mom ideas.

Thanks!

ETA: what was he doing while not washing the rug? Being completely useless! All he did was dishes, cook every meal, do all of my laundry, competently take care of the baby while I do whatever I want, go to work everyday, bring home six figures and dinner and other useless things. Ugh. I don’t know why I put up with him. 🙄

My fellow sisters, I just found this sub and I am home 💖❤️‍🔥 thank you for letting me be here!! I want to share my Evil Woman story from this winter.

I (30) went out with my friend (32) specifically to go dancing. We go out, live it up, and are having a great time drinking and dancing. After a few hours of blissful no-men hours, two single guys approach us and start hovering around, desperately trying to catch our eye. You know the gross thing men do when they’re trying to dance on you but also observe you like you’re a piece of meat they can’t wait to get their claws into? That.

I make .1 second of eye contact with this dude and suddenly BAM, he’s on me, trying to touch my hips and grind on me. I IMMEDIATELY halt, put my hand directly in his face, shout “NO!” And step a full foot back. What does this idiot do? Try to step around my hand to get closer to me!!! Also; not to stereotype, but this guys was clearly from a culture that we all know is extremely patriarchal and native women are not safe there. So he does not care about a NO, clearly.

Anyway after I give him the stink eye AGAIN, he finally gets the hint and moves away. To move right onto a group of freshly 21 year old girls and their boyfriends dancing together. What does he do? Single out one of the non-coupled up girls and tries to grind on her too. All the college boys that are in the group? Doing NOTHING. just watching it happen and watching this poor girl look uncomfortable.

At this point my friend and I have had enough. I find a bouncer, point to these creeps, and get them swiftly kicked out of the bar!! In the meantime, my friend pulls the college boys together and reads them the riot act for not speaking up and protecting the single girl. She has these boys nodding their heads and practically yes ma’aming at this point lmao. The girl that was getting grinded on came over and thanked us for intervening!

The rest of the night was smooth sailing and all of us girlies danced without further incident because of Evil Women. I will not allow men to wreck my peace, my fun, just because they feel entitled to access to women.