r/itsthatbad

https://archive.is/THxtT

>"“The problem is not that they are functionally unable to have sex, or to have orgasms. Or frequency. It’s that the sex they’re having isn’t what she wants,” Gotzis told me in a recent phone conversation.

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>“Long-term relationships are tough on desire, and particularly on female desire,” she said.

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>“When couples want to remain in a monogamous relationship, a key component of treatment … is to help couples add novelty,” Gordon advised. [...] Of course, as Jane’s example shows, lingerie might not do the trick. Nelson explains that if “their initial tries don’t work, [women] will many times shut down totally or turn outward to an affair or an online ‘friend,’ creating … a flirty texting or social-media relationship.”"

This is nothing that I didn't already know (women crave novelty, and the spark eventually fades) but it's nice to see it in a mainstream publication. It makes me feel vindicated and glad that I never got married - while I would love a "forever relationship", I'm not signing a blank check that can set me up for being financially fleeced when curiosity inevitably gets the better of the other side.

The senate has convened and has denied your request 🙄

Im so sick of this shit

Women will never know the pain of having to go through this

What covid does to a mf

Woman kills her children…but her husband is at fault??? Un-fucking-believable! He lost his kids!!!😡😡😡

What are these double standards, and people think misandry doesnt exist smh

A metallurgical worker does a complex maneuver with red-hot metal whilst pouring water upon himself

Uhhh….chat, is this ok? 🫤

Morality of catfishing your own SO to prove a point?

"Men have been holding women back"

Nobody Wants to Make the First Move Anymore

Fucking evil 😡

My Sperger-Sense is tingling

Downloaded Threads for the first time , found this 1 scroll in.

My jaw dropped to the floor! 😳

Intelligence Vs Incelligence

A solid chunk of western women remove themselves from the dating pool by destroying their own libidos.

The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it. (From The Atlantic)

“Someone’s trying to hook him, but thank God he’s got a mama like me…” Commanders QB Jayden Daniels is SINGLE and his mom/agent says she plans on keeping it that way.

When The Traditional Breadwinner Role Starts To Flip