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I'm trying to go for a more "pretty boy masculine" look. Skin quality is an issue so I'm already dropping a lot of money on acne scar treatments and doing skin care and SPF religiously.

Any advice is welcome!

Hypergamy is already at a very high level nowadays, but I believe it can go even higher. Why? Well, simps keep simping for average women, and Chads are having relationships with MTBs and even some HTBs in their lives. What is left, for example, for HTNs are LTBs who can choose a guy way above them and who will have no choice but to stay with her. The problem is that once these LTBs see they have many more HTN options than they deserve, they will start to believe they deserve a Chad. At the perfect moment, even the MTBs will get tired of trying to hook a Chad and will stop having encounters with any man.

You can give up at that point. From then on, not even HTNs will be enough for LTBs, only Chads and above. This is getting ridiculous. Someone stop this hypergamy train, please, immediately!

When there's a desperate man:

"Pathetic, best I can do is nothing, no one owes you anything"

When there's a desperate woman:

"Best I can do is hot alpha male Chad who doesn't eat pussy"

Imagine meeting a hot chick who's dtf but just doesn't want to suck it and still complain.

They really do live in another world.

Source: GDD

Credit to Rehab Room for inspiring this post.

I don't know whats done so wrong in the 21st century, but on a number of important margins men are starting to crack. I hope this is some temporary fluke and things get back on track soon. I'm worried it's not. Men are becoming more friendless, isolated, and addicted. More and more or us surplus males are finding ourselves living useless and pointless lives. Homelessness, incarceration, victimized by crime, addicted, unemployed, broke, uneducated. All many of us have are video games, porn, and cheap food. Fewer men in college, fewer men working, more living with their parents.

We can't get jobs, we can't get mortgages, we can't even rent. We can't get dates, we're losing our friends, we won't have children. What is going on?

What is increasingly clear is that men are not privileged or powerful oppressors. Low status males are the most marginalized group of people. In rich or poor nations this is universal. the bottom of every society is almost universally male. The issue is not the 99% vs the 1%. it's not a political or racial issue. The problem is women (the real privileged group) vs men (the real oppressed group). They are the beneficiaries of affirmative action, HR micromanagement, state subsidies, and explicit preferential policies.

We're becoming increasingly redundant in a world of automation. Armies of surplus males going nowhere. Thousands of college graduates applying for the same entry level jobs. Hundreds of us trying to hit on the same Gen Z women (who are all conditioned to hate men). Dozens of us applying to rent the same overpriced apartment.

I encourage you all to keep posting more doomer infographics. We need to wake people up.

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I (19F) met my (19M) boyfriend’s family yesterday. We’ve been dating for a few months, and for context, I am Hispanic. My parents were both born in Mexico. My boyfriend is white, and this has genuinely never been an issue between us. He’s pretty liberal, and I guess I just assumed his family was similar because he’d never really said otherwise.

We’re both in college, so he doesn’t live with his parents anymore, but I’ve been asking him to introduce me to them. Yesterday we finally did.

The first thing I noticed when we pulled up was the huge American flag outside their house. Obviously that by itself means literally nothing, so I didn’t think much of it. His dad was actually really nice to me. His mom wasn’t rude, exactly, but something felt off almost immediately.

She kept asking me questions in this very polite voice that somehow made every question feel like an interrogation. Where was I from? Where were my parents from? How long had they lived here? When I said I was born here, she said, “Oh, good,” and then immediately changed the subject. Maybe I was reading too much into it, but the “oh, good” stuck with me.

At dinner she asked what my parents did for work. Again, completely normal question, except when I answered she looked almost surprised and went, “Wow, good for them.”

Then at some point my boyfriend mentioned something we’d done together and his mom randomly said, “Oh, you know who used to love that? Madison.” I had no idea who Madison was. My boyfriend got visibly annoyed and said, “Mom,” and she went, “What? I’m just saying. Madison loved it.”

Turns out Madison is his ex-girlfriend.

She brought her up TWO more times. Not in an obvious “I liked her better than you” way, which almost made it stranger. It was always casual enough that calling it out would make me look insane. she said how “Madison’s family used to go there every summer.” or “Remember that pie Madison brought us?” and then she would laugh it off and just change the subject.

On the drive back I finally asked my boyfriend if his mom disliked me. He seemed genuinely confused and told me no, she’s “just like that with everyone” and that she takes a while to warm up to people. I figured maybe I was being insecure. Meeting someone’s parents is awkward anyway, and maybe I’d gone in expecting her to love me immediately.

Then last night I made the mistake of looking her up on Facebook.

Holy. Fucking. Shit.

Her page was public and I didn’t even have to scroll far. Trump posts everywhere. Posts about “illegals” destroying America. Posts saying every undocumented immigrant should be deported, no exceptions. One about immigrants coming here, having “five kids,” and expecting hardworking Americans to pay for them. Another complaining about Spanish being spoken in public. She had reposted something about how if you come to America you need to “assimilate or leave.”

Suddenly the entire dinner replayed in my head.Where are your parents from? How long have they been here? Oh, good. Wow, good for them. And fucking Madison.

I kept scrolling even though I knew I should stop, and the posts got worse. At one point I literally put my phone down and just stared at the wall because I realized my boyfriend might genuinely have no idea that the way his mom treated me was different. He’s probably seen her interact with white girlfriends his entire life.

And now I don’t know what to do. He’s never said anything remotely racist to me. Politically, he disagrees with basically everything she posts. But I also really don’t want to tell him, “Hey, I stalked your mom’s Facebook after meeting her and I think she’s racist and hates me.”

EDIT: Just wanted to add context since some comments say I should leave. I don't want to ask him to cut his mom off as they already barely speak, prior to this I've never once heard them talk on the phone even when he calls his brothers. We don’t live in the same state as his family. We were visiting because our summer break is ending, and I really wanted to meet his parents. Apparently he had also specifically told his mom beforehand not to say anything weird to me. He also had us leaving much earlier than we originally planned too.

After making this post I showed him his mom's fb page and asked "Is this your mom?". He was silent and then said yes, and that he was very embarrassed about her views, and didn’t tell me about it because he didn't want the first meeting to be uncomfortable or awkward, he didn’t expect her to actually say anything to me, and he doesn’t plan on having her very involved in his life anyway. He apologized a ton and admitted he should’ve warned me beforehand. I’m pissed about his mom.. but I'm very happy with him and how he treats me overall