r/Goldpilltalk

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As a man, you don't get to have this type of fun. By virtue of being a woman, she is instantly invited to the party for free.

u/BrightSpring12 — 8 days ago
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My husband found out I once dated a much older man

Before I met my husband, while I was in my mid 20s, I mostly dated men in their late 20s/early 30s, with the exception of one man who was in his mid 40s.

This older guy was a businessman and the first (and only) man I’ve ever dated with such a large age gap. We met because he was one of the partners of a restaurant that served cuisine from my home country and eventually we started dating. We were together for a few months and actually had a wonderful time.

However, I eventually ended things because our lifestyles and long-term goals were very different. He traveled between two cities during the week to oversee his restaurants and worked a lot. I also knew I wanted children someday and I didn't want my children to have a father who was already in his 50s. I don't regret dating him at all but toward the end I became increasingly self-conscious about our age difference. When we were out together, I sometimes felt like people were staring at us.

A few months after we broke up, I met the man who is now my husband. We met on a dating app, so we both knew we'd dated other people before meeting each other but we've never really discussed our previous relationships in detail.

A few days ago, a mutual friend posted an old photo on her Instagram story for her birthday. It was a photo from her birthday celebration 4 years ago and she reposted it because her late brother was in the picture. She apparently didn't notice that I was also in the photo with my ex.

My husband saw her story and asked me who the man was. I was honestly really embarrassed but I told him he was my ex. My husband was surprised because even though he doesn’t look bad at all physically, the age difference is noticeable. He was confused because he didn’t know about this part of my dating life and he didn’t expect I would have been open to date a man almost 20 years my senior. We talked about it afterward and I think the issue is settled, at least for now.

However, I can’t stop feeling embarrassed, weird and self-conscious about it. Part of the reason I feel this way is because in the country we live in there are stereotypes about Latin American women going after older men (or men in general) to obtain money or a residency permit. That wasn’t the case with my ex and it certainly isn’t the case with my husband.

I also don’t like that other people we know saw her post before she deleted it. I try to keep my private life private. It wasn’t a good look 😞 I don’t want other people making assumptions about me.

u/Eldenringop — 9 days ago
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Another brutal BP at work today

I got a coworker who’s a chick from Indonesia and got a husband in Singapore(they’re both Indonesian though but she lived in Singapore before this). Brutal shit, I didn’t know she was even married cuz I know she’s slept with a couple of the guys from work, and is a party chick and goes out to party with her friends and shows others the pictures and the dudes she allegedly hooked up with.

She just casually dropped today in a meeting to a client that she is married and showed her desk photo of her husband and kid in Singapore.

Holy brutal. Her husband paid for her education and apparently works for the government over there. She is only here on a 1 year contract and will go back once it’s over. She’s gonna live up the year here I guess. She’s been here since June. Poor dude.

Afterwards some coworker asked about her husband and she said yeah she’s happily married and showed some photos of them back in Singapore and even some wedding pics. They all gathered around her, and were like “awww” etc. No mention of her cheating or anything. It’s like it didn’t even happen.

When I tried to make conversation with her a couple weeks ago because we were debugging some prod stuff together, I asked her how she’s finding America so far, and she said she likes it and “so much partying and hot guys here, how can a girl not like it”. I laughed and I didn’t care cuz yeah, I was under the assumption she was single.

Brutal world dude. I know she’s on the apps too, because she shows people the dudes on her apps to make jokes sometimes. She is 100% cheating on him, her own words. Unless they’re in some open relationship.

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u/BrightSpring12 — 9 days ago

24 year old man in Turkey kills his 18 year old girlfriend. Someone doxes him and women started mass following him and attacking the doxxer

u/Pitiful-Ask2000 — 9 days ago

Going to the sports complex at my university is a brutal experience

Do you know why STDs proliferate so easily at the olympic cities? That's because olympic athletes fuck a lot. And it's only natural that they would. They are young, have hot bodies and lots of testosterone (yes, even the women).

The environment at the sports complex at my university is similar to the one at an olympic city. At the sports complex, we have students who practice a variety of sports, and we have different teams for the same modality. So its multiple courts and grass fields and water facilities are always full with people practicing their sport. It's actually very cool to just walk there and see all of these people having fun and training.

The fun ends when I pass through a team of girls. They are mostly young and pretty and sweaty, but they wouldn't want to talk to me at all just because I'm not chadlite+. And then I go on social media and see my teammates dating girls from other teams and it hurts me even more deep.

It feels like I'm in a Fluoridean Blackpill Beach.

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u/euodeioabubu — 9 days ago
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I think we should also acknowledge the struggles that women go through, take this horrifying stat for example

u/BrightSpring12 — 10 days ago

LISTEN.TO.WOMEN.

They really don’t like us. They don’t try to hide it. They don’t try and debate this point either. Its mostly men saying women like men and we need to grow up. women never actually disagree with this.

u/PriestKingofMinos — 9 days ago
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Absolute Brutal Story From High School

There was this girl when I was in freshman year who moved to europe and stayed in touch with her old friends. There was this guy who fancied her. Come by junior year, this guy slid into her dms after they were all chilling in a group chat like all of them who shared a homeroom in freshman year.

I guess they all told her that he fancied her or something since everyone knew that and they all got together and came up with this prank to tell him they were gonna make some tiktok and needed to create a dance compilation of everyone and so each person is gonna send their own little clip of themdancing.

This guy fell for it, recorded it and sent it. It got shared in all our class groups and stuff. Even junior high kids would come to our floor to see that guy. He became the laughing stock of the whole school. He got bullied mercilessly. The girl apparently already had a European bf or something.

He tried to standup for himself via chat he really tried to shame that group chat for pranking him and they all started clowning him even harder. He was also relatively short about 5'4 maybe and that was a key attack line. This thing got so popular that's how i came to hear about all that.

Man even the teachers had seen that dance thing he did which was apparently so cringe, even the gym teacher joked about it during one session he laughingly asked the guy to come up and dance. I lowkey felt bad for him but couldn't do anything about it. Luckily it kinda blew over people did forget about it in a few months but man it must have been rough for that guy.

I did hear from someone that he used to sit in back during class and sometimes just weep. It's just cruel dude. I can't imagine how anyone would find joy in this. I haven't seen the guy in years wherever he is, i hope he's doing okay now. Bullies suck man.

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u/BrightSpring12 — 9 days ago

Nowadays a MTN is considered lucky in life, if he manages to marry a 400 pound whale, who goes on TikTok and talks about other men having sex with her.

u/Pitiful-Ask2000 — 8 days ago