
Just be confident, bro.
Never ask women or Chads for dating "advice".
At best you'll get ambiguous ideas related to improving on subjective things that can't measured (emotional intelligence, confidence, putting yourself "out there"). At worst you'll just be dismissed as a crank or an entitled loser.
It's basically incomprehensible for women that there are men that no one wants because they don't interact with men they don't like. Their advice is ultimately for the kind of men they date already and they sort of assume there is someone for everyone.
Imagine asking a woman "what would it take for a guy you rejected, a guy you didn't find attractive, to have done or said, to have met your threshold for being worthy of going out with?" The answer is very likely "nothing" followed by something like "you can't force attraction" meaning we were right all along, its just rules 1 and 2.
- Be attractive
- Don't be unattractive