It’s so sad how even some of the mods here are actively mocking genuinely ugly people here… and basically trying to do what normies already do to us in real life
Makes you really wonder where tf you can even go to safely talk about this stuff
Even other “ugly” people hate ugly people
Even here there’s a hierarchy in terms of the severity of ugliness and the life experience it grants you
There’s a spectrum even when it comes to being ugly
And because being ugly is already rare enough those of us who are on the extreme end of the scale to where our lives are almost damn near unlivable , we are consistently hated by people even when we show our best qualities and are nice, we’re barely able to socialize without severe push back to the point of being forcibly isolated , it feels even more isolating and invalidating when you have people HERE questioning the misery that is your life
It’s why even here I have almost NO empathy for those who have it easier or better than me because it’s like even the people HERE act like the normies irl who constantly torment and bully us
I see no point in interacting with or engaging with people here who don’t share the same experiences as you
It’s a different story if they’re trying to listen and understand where you’re coming from
But even here there are people so hateful and cruel to those of us who have it worse than them… when technically WE should be mad
And ima be so real how can anyone expect us to happily engage with people who have it easier than us and it’s like they’re constantly rubbing it in our faces ?
Its like they’re like “damn bro I don’t have it that bad just surgerymaxxx lol”
And if you’re truly ugly… that shit isn’t funny when you already feel helpless and are barely able to enjoy your life
I have such a strong growing resentment for even some of the people here
But for those of you who are genuinely suffering because of your appearance and grapple with it everyday and feel isolated and helpless because of it I truly feel for you and I get how much it hurts and unfair it is
It’s personally made me feel like I have no future because of it
But yeah I’m tired of pretending like I’m happy to interact with the people here who clearly have it better in ALOT of ways
Just saying
Oooo OOO Oooo OOO ooo Ooooo Ooooo
Tell me who’s to blame is it the people or myself??
But i am not a victim bich I’m practically drowning in my blessings 🫶🏽🫶🏽🖕🏽
Even here when I talk about how cruel people are too me unprovoked and how I’ve been shouted at on the streets and have had people randomly say “ugly” in a very hateful tone directed towards me people here are confused
And this is just mostly an everyday experience for me and if it’s not everyday it’s every other day because I isolate for the most part to avoid it
But it’s like damn this shit is already isolating and then you come here only to realize most of the people here aren’t ugly to the point they constantly get harassed and mocked on a near daily basis it’s like damn where are the actual ugly people who are suffering because of this?
Stupidly and pointlessly putting on cologne or perfume to have some sense or control over your ugly ass life just to realize no one’s gonna be standing close enough to you to smell it or even care because your face is so ugly and even laugh at you for even bothering to put that on
So you essentially wasted your time and money
Y’all know those posts that said something like
“If you ugly stop wearing cologne, making me turn around for bullshit”
Yep this is how the world feels about you when you try to put effort into yourself when you’re ugly
Currently I feel enslaved by my face, serving a permanent house arrest sentence. I feel like a plant kept in the tiniest pot with a cage around it,,, I’m unable to grow or flourish with this current face and everyone around me looks and FEELS so much BIGGER and BETTER in comparison because their nice faces have given them room to grow in life
To become self actualized and properly socialized
To have people want to get to know them and who are attracted to them who want to sleep with them
I know it’s taboo to openly desire but I really wish I was attractive enough to have someone want to fuck the shit out of me it HURTS seeing everyone else have that so easily… and then me being left with permanent blue balls
Condemned to just working my life away to pay bills for live a life that has NOTHING IN STORE
Not because I want it to be that way but just because THATS HOW IT IS!
I try to act like my face isn’t holding me back until I witness regular looking people flirting and exchanging numbers with each other
Simply by existing
I thought this was something you had to work for by showcasing good personality traits and “flirting skills”
Turns out no the flirtatious behavior you see is just mutual attraction taking place. It doesn’t have to be worked for it’s AUTOMATIC
And THAT’S what I wish I had… it feels so miserable not being able to even go outside sometimes but also missing out on relationships, sex, friends, promotions, basic respect
This shit is truly a nightmare when you realize just HOW much it steals from you
I’m pretty resilient so if I only could have a nice looking face I would really be able to handle all my other problems because interacting with people becomes so much easier, they’re more likely to help you, you’re more likely to have a support system because of it , you’ll feel more at ease in public and around people
You won’t be automatically hated and outcasted ….
This shit has just ruined my entire fucking life and it continues to kick me in the back of my knee every time I try to stand back up and make something of my life
I’m so sick of it. Sometimes I get paranoid and feel like someone placed an irreversible permanent curse on me because there’s no fucking way that my everyday life is so foreign to the average person
And it’s made so clear even when k causally watch how people interact with each other and smile so intently in each others’ eyes while people are too disgusted to even look at me for a couple of seconds
I’ve never been in a real life relationship because I know relationships are mostly about looks, status, and leverage
There’s always one person in the relationship who has the upper hand due to some advantage. And USUALLY is the one who looks better
And being ugly means everyone else will have leverage over you and thus they will feel more entitled in a relationship and give you less than what you deserve
I know this and so I don’t even bother trying to get in a relationship because if you’re ugly people will just try to use you
Not to mention the stress and pressure of them cheating and leaving you which is HIGHLY likely to a point it’s almost guaranteed
And then having to deal with feeling like you’re embarrassing your partner by them being seen with you in public and just never being able to feel at ease and fully enjoy the relationship because everyone else is judging your partner for being with you because you’re ugly
Relationships seem like they’re highly unsatisfying when youre ugly and just amplify the stress and anxiety we already feel on a daily basis
I refuse to subject myself to that
And it suck’s because relationships and sex are a huge part of life it’s where most people get their satisfaction and “meaning” out of life and we’re essentially forced to miss out on it or be miserable if we try
I just took an edible and it hasn’t hit yet but I wanna make the most of the high , so what do you do to enhance / enjoy your high?
Aside from listening to music of course
Lol that’s pretty much all I do when high and I swear it feels like composed the shit myself
And this relates to being ugly because it’s how I cope with the loneliness caused by being ugly
I genuinely feel like your appearance affects everything in life. As long as you’re dealing with other people your looks seem to play a role in your perception, treatment, development, opportunities , and much more
And since it affects so much I feel like it’s easy for people to underplay just how much it affects
So what’s something you wish people acknowledged or talked about more as it pertains to being ugly?
And I’ll make a video on it
The jobs that ugly people are (hardly) qualified for especially if you didn’t go to school is usually gonna be entry level jobs
The issue with these jobs is your hours are mostly dependent on how likable you are to your coworkers and managers
This caused me extreme stress and I managed it as best as I could
I had to overwork myself and be overly bubbly and make small talk when I didn’t want to and the other person didn’t wanna fucking talk to me because I’m ugly
This got me SLIGHTLY more hours but I was both physically exhausted from how hard I to work and mentally exhausted from having to constantly perform socially to make up for being ugly
And it didn’t always work because as you know when youre ugly people just have a problem with you for no fucking reason and all it took was for 1 person to say something bad about me to management and my hours were reduced to an unlivable wage
I was roughly getting 20 hours a week at times
Which was hardly enough to pay my fucking basic bills let alone rent
So I’d have to always beg and plead for extra hours
Which got so fucking old because no one else had to do that
And it was all because they didn’t like me for being ugly
This is why I look at people like they’re fucking stupid when they causally mention “just looksmaxx “
“Just get plastic surgery”
Cause it’s not that fucking easy especially when youre ugly
Because there’s SOOOO much you have to do to even get and KEEP a basic ass job and then to get livable hours
It’s fucking ridiculous and exhausting
My mom sadly is unattractive and got mistreated for it most of her life so she turned to drinking and she said she didn’t drink when she was pregnant with me but I’m skeptical about that because of my thin lips that lack definition and a visible Cupids bow as well as a basically non existent philtrum
A very common feature I notice ALL attractive people have is very plump, prominent, and defined lips that project off of their face, which I don’t have
Do you also have this? And if you really do have this syndrome what are some of the other ways it affects your life?