For me I’d love to say it doesn’t matter but it does… I’d have to find them attractive; so as shallow as it sounds they do need to meet a minimum threshold. Don’t need a model, just someone I personally find pretty.
What about you guys? Could you be with someone you don’t find attractive? Could you be with someone you genuinely think its ugly?
I work in clinical pharmacology and mainly conduct research and do advisory work. I feel like maybe neuropharmacology would have been more interesting but at the same time probably more work.
My dream job was to be a model (LOL) but since my face/body wasn’t up to scratch I studied and worked on my brain and was always interested in biology and medicine. What job does everyone else do? Is it your dream job? If not what is? How did you fall into it? Was your job/career influenced by you being ugly?
Why would anybody even do this… when people say social media is horrible really what they mean is people are horrible, social media only acts as a medium for them to channel it.
My friends are all normies, but I didn’t realise how far it goes until yesterday. I was having a conversation with my friend and he was saying that anybody could be a model??? I was like that’s simply not true??? I then went on to say some people are genuinely unattractive and can’t be models, and even average people can’t be models. He said yeah obviously not those people. It’s funny he didn’t even factor unattractive people in when he said “anybody”
How bluepilled/normie are your friends? Do you have ugly/ND friends? I wish I had ugly/nd friends, all of my friends both male and female are conventionally attractive and neurotypical.
This is my most recent favourite? What’s yours? Taylor Swifts blank space is a close second. But I have to say it rekindles the love of EDM type sounds lol. I’m 27 so it’s peak nostalgia for me…. I marked it as spoiler because the video thumbnail is a female body in bikini and didn’t want to trigger anyone or make them uncomfortable…
Do you think looks are the most important aspect of life? Yes or no? And why? I feel yes… I don’t mean in the sense of looking GOOD is the most important aspect of life. But I mean if you are physically deformed you are going to have a much different life experience/outcome. I hope that made sense, but what are your thoughts?
Watch it before judging from the title; he’s one of my favourite YouTubers. He primarily details natty fitness tips and coagulates studies but he made this video because it’s somewhat related to his main content.
TL:DW: He says women value security above all, outlines why due to the evolutionary process, explains how important security is during child rearing, says these innate instincts have not left, frames looks as more of a cherry on top, essentially overcompensating on other metrics, and details online dating is not the way if you’re ugly because the looks is all they can see from there.
It’s an interesting watch and perspective - if you can maintain attention there’s no flashy editing (sorry the video is more tailored towards the guys here)
I was with my friend today and told him my corners (hair) are thinning, he told me nah they’re not I showed him clearly they were but he still maintained they were not.
I don’t understand why they just don’t like to admit the truth about some things.
I feel like this question is more directed at the guys of the sub (I can also see girls compensating with the body and gym but I feel it’s more effective and hits more when you’re a guy).
I’ve been training since I was 15, and seriously since I was 20. I’m 27 now and in really good aesthetic shape, thankfully for me too I’m a good height and have a good frame to build muscle on.
Working out has become very boring and a chore but I feel like I can’t stop because it boots my overall attractiveness and I really need that boost to contend with others.
I’ve also been at basically my peak with diminishing returns for like 2 years. And with the rise of all these gym bros on TikTok it makes it seem like literally everyone has an insane physique (even though they are on gear).
It really makes me consider gear myself, ideally I’d like to just stop working out but it’s not even an option at this point. Does anybody else feel the stress to get/maintain a great body to compensate?