I (M20) hate coming home in general because of my partner (F19). How do I proceed moving forward?
My partner recently moved in with me due to her parents kicking her out because she didn't follow their house rules and according to them "Did nothing around the house". From her perspective she made it seem like they got on her case 24/7 for no reason and she did contribute. At first, I wasn't really onboard with saying yes to her moving in nor did I actually say yes, I just let it happen because I felt responsible for taking care of her. To be very blunt I don't feel welcomed in my own home, I don't feel comfortable nor do I enjoy being there. It's gotten bad to the point where I got a job to avoid being home and to have an excuse to be out of the house. When I come home, I am met with dishes that she left and messes she made for me to clean up after working a 12hour shift whilst she's on her iPad playing games with her friends. I do my best to ignore it and give her the benefit of doubt but it gets harder every day, My younger sister suggested I kick her out and break up with her but I feel really bad personally doing that to her and leaving her at rock bottom but I can't keep living like this. And on top of her hardly cleaning after herself she hardly shows me any affection or is very dismissive towards me, she doesn't even greet me when I come home from work or interact with me that much. I've also been sleeping in my living room on an air mattress because she is up late at night loudly on the game while knowing I have to work the next morning. What should I do?