So before any of this starts I admit that I really fucked up and absolutely everything was a mistake that has been hurting me for months.
TL;DR I was a piece of shit roommate that had my manipulative ex over just way to much and made my roommates life a living hell. Im so unimaginatively sorry for everything and will be calling you tmr about it to apoligize.
Me and the guy lets call jake and I were friends through year one of college. He originally had plans for an apartment but they fell through because the other became an RA at one of the dorms so then we roomed together. The summer prior I to the semester had gotten a new girlfriend and would push the boundaries. In the first months of the semester she had come over once for the weekend and she stayed in the dorm with us. Jake then stayed a buddies apartment while she was here which should have been a sign to me but I unfortunately did not take the hint. Later in the semester she had family problems and decided to take a surprise train ride to me with her last $80. Due to me being broke af I was not able to just send her back. While I could have drove her back the 6 hours I dident and I dont know why. While around then I do admit that I was starting to see signs but sadly I dident have it in me to fight back against her and get rid of her. Yes I admit that we snuck in the room at night so she could sleep in the bed as the couches were to uncomfortable. Though I say, we never fucked while you were in the room. I understand that that month was an absolutely living hell having her around and looking back I totally see it. I am happy you were able to make your way out and get a co-op for the following semester. During winter brake I broke up with her and then I discovered how absolutely awful and manipulative of a person she really was. Honestly I was shocked to find out just how many of yall hatted her and wanted her gone and saw who she really was. Heck even my best friends mom knew it and she only met her once. Looking back at things it hurts so much seeing how much I made your life hell and that I burnt bridges between us. I dont expect you to forgive me or continue to be friendly. I understand that we are in the same team in the club and if you would like me to switch teams Im ok with doing that. Im just so sorry man, really I dont have the words to express how totally awful I feel for everything. While I did apoligize over text I will agree that that is just cheap and lazy. This is way over due but tmr ima give you a call just to give you a proper apology.