Advice needed; should we discuss the narcs behavior with the boy?
In a co-parent/two home situation would you have wanted the other parent to explain the narcs behavior growing up
Context: Boy lives with narc mom and due to conflict between the household the behavior has escalated (using him to hurt safe parent, drinking, not sending to school, etc.)
While we dont want to include him in grown up conflicts, we also want to point out behavior when it happens (without badmouthing the parent ).
Any advice? What would you have preferred?
u/Comfortable_Bed_3108 — 6 days ago