u/Comfortable_Low_2027

So my friend and I have fallen out of communication since we moved away from each other. On my birthday, after not talking for a while, she sent me a text with money on Apple Cash with a message saying “Happy birthday, {my name} ! Have a fun day. Get a coffee or something on me!!” I’ve never used Apple Cash before and I didn’t realize that the money expired. I don’t want her to feel bad if I didn’t redeem it, but surely I can’t request again without being rude , can I?