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Childfree People do you not mind kids?

People who are childfree men or women. Do you not mind kids when their around. Or I guess in simple terms are you kid person even though you don’t have kids? Just wondering.

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u/Far_Industry_9490 — 1 day ago

For my 40 and up, what is something you wished you learned in your 30’s?

Asking because people are obsessed with their 20’s

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u/mugghin — 1 day ago

Thoughts on parents who get involved in their grown childrens dating relationships

I have a friend whose dad (i don't over 50 M) admitted that he would make any guys life difficult if he approached his daughters with romantic intent. Mind you, they are all over 18 F.

I understand a parent wanting to protect their daughter, but where do you draw the line between being protective and interfering with your adult child’s dating life?

I personally find it extreme and weird?

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u/Flora_di_laurentis — 1 day ago

Is it possible for a man with avoidant attachment and mental health problems (depression) to commit to a woman?

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He says he needs to fix himself first, when he goes silent he says he wasn't talking even to his mom or family, doesnt want to commit and says he'd rather distance himself -that it feels safer to him. He knows he is not treating me well and when I pointed it out, he understood how bad it looks. I suggested he looks up avoidant attachment or go to therapy to fix whatever trauma he has. I also have been understanding. He told me he doesnt want any relationship with anyone months ago because he knows he is acting mean with me and needs to fix himself. Says I won't understand him because he doesn't even understands himself. Also says every little daily thing he Has to do, he is having issue doing. He told me I'm too valuable for him. Is it possible he thinks he is just not good enough for me?

I told him how I feel when he treats me like this and he said now that I told him, he sees it and feels bad about it. And says he has personal problems.

Also says I'm important to him.

We are LDR. Met once. Everytime when I want to meet, he says next time, not right now, we will see. Later he says he was embarassed of himself and that's why he doesnt want to meet. (He does drugs every weekend)

Is it possible he will overcome his demons and commit to me?

Also I'm a believer of theory that whether you have problems or not, if you want someone, there is nothing stopping you.

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u/Any_Insect8448 — 1 day ago

Possible blackface?

Sorry abt the alarming title but idk how or where else to ask this question!

For reference, I’m white.

For Halloween, I really want to dress as Wydowna Spider from Monster High but her entire body is jet black. Is it considered blackface, rude or insensitive in any way if I use black foundation (along w other makeup obvi) to replicate her appearance? I love this character, but obviously it’s not worth making anyone uncomfortable!!

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u/bloodibellicombjelly — 2 days ago