Aromantics, what made you realize?
Ive never had any problems with affection or physical intimacy, but for some reason I can never be content in a relationship. Ive never been in any super toxic relationships so I know im not traumatized or anything. Relationships for me have typically ended badly or just dont last very long, and more often then not im the one ending it. Its almost like I look for reasons to leave, I get bored of it, or just overall tired of the person. Like the more time I spend with them, the more unbearable they become. If it only happened once or twice, id think maybe its just the person, but its almost every time. Ive been in open relationships, and I tend to be better in those, but at the same time it feels...wrong, like im missing something. I want to be in a relationship, but I want to figure out myself to avoid hurting someone else. Ive been wondering if im aromantic for like the past 3 or 4 years, i keep trying to make relationships work but its always the same result.
My biggest question is, if you're aromantic, what led you to that conclusion?