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Last week the person I dated for the past three years broke up with me with no real explanation and by trying to start a fight with me In order to break up, honestly im profoundly hurt because it really came out of nowhere he told me he just can’t date anyone rn and that it has more to do with him than me that he lost some feelings and is not enthusiastic about the relationship the way he used to be, and that he takes responsibility for our relationship not working because his behavior,he eventually blocked me for not leaving him alone about breaking up with me and not giving me a real reason or explanation. Then I see him online after we ended things being a freaking weirdo and obviously trying to get attention from new women, this person literally abused, cheated, lied, gas lighted and manipulated me for years he even SAd me when I did everything for him from teaching him to cook. helping him get his goal career by allowing him to live with me virtually rent free, pushing him towards his dreams of djing and getting his first gig somewhere, and giving him chance after chance for his shitty behavior bc I gave him the benefit of the doubt and genuinely loved him, to tell the truth I want revenge I know I won’t get it fully, but at the very least I want to post his photos in multiple groups chats in a app he uses heavily to warn women of the type of person he really is? Is this really wrong? My whole life I’ve let ppl wrong me and I’ve always been the bigger person but atp I absolutely refuse? I don’t want to be the bigger person? Not anymore esp if he will have the ability to abuse and hurt another woman the way he hurt me. I can’t save everyone…. But I know the local community is very small and that ppl will see and listen and be weary of him and honestly it still wouldn’t be close to what he actually deserves for everything he put me through