u/Commercial-Dig-7112

I (15F) got invited to Amy’s (15F) 16th birthday and don’t want to go.
Basically Amy is in our grp and has caused drama ever since she joined. Prior being in our grp, she was in a grp with Tiffany, and Amy’s mum would constantly spread roumors and lies about Tiffany (a 12yo girl) to the other parents till she had no friends. Amy’s mum would also constantly copy Tiffany’s mum with things she baught and holidays they would go on. When that grp collapsed, she joined our grp and Amy would tell her mum everything we do and her mum would pretend to be her when msg in the grp chat, as her mum wants her to have friends. And we would notice by the choice of vocabulary she’d use. She never really talked to us and would literally just follow us around the school, especially when it came to June, it’s like she had a special attachment with her, and when we go out her mum would be there and force her to join our conversations and/or photos we took.
Anyways it was my 13th bday and that same year I had got really close to Tiffany, but didn’t invite her as I knew the drama between her and Amy. Came tp knpw Amy cancled a week before the party because she was going abroad to America. Mind you the invitations were sent out 3 months before, and then it was too late to invite Tiffany. She obviously found out and got upset, but understood why I didn’t invite her. Moreover it was June’s 15th bday, and we spent a night at a hotel. Amy was obviously invited and her mum stayed at the hotel too. Later on, our friend’s friend Nick came and got alcohol with him (not for us to drink, it was just his (it’s pretty easy to get alcohol at our age from where we live) and he put it in the safe until he was there) When Amy saw Nick, she went to tell June’s mum and she became furious and proceeded to take Nick out of our room, making him leave the alcohol behind. Later on we noticed Amy wasn’t in the room as she had went to her mums room and we went to the pool. As we went Amy told her mum abt the alcohol and she told June’s mum. Both parents took the opportunity to search our room and found the alcohol which got everyone in trouble especially our friend that was close to Nick. More happened along the years but we chose to ignore it as we were ending HS. No one really likes her, especially her mum.
The day after I made a grp chat abt my 16th, she made one. She invited our group and 30 other people that she didn’t talk to and made sure to exclude Tiffany’s grp. Mind you we talk to Tiffany’s grp more than we talk to Amy. Anyways many ppl aren’t going, my friend isn’t going bec it’s her dad’s bday, and some people aren’t going as it’s our prom two days after. The only people that are deff going are June and Liam, as their parents are forcing them to go. On that day I’m getting my nails done for prom and there’s going to be a party that Tiffany’s group are going to. After all she did, I’d rather go to the pool party which my group is also going to. AITA?
I had to invite Amy to my party because our parents were really close, and had no choice