I was just going through some Indian subs and a gross amount of men over here have this nice guy mentality.
There was legit a guy saying that "why does a cheater have a girl to cheat on, why does a abuser have a girl to hit, alcoholics and smokers get girlfriends but he can't because he's such a "good guy" ". And the comments....god it was just full of men claiming women want to be abused and don't like good or respectful men. LIKE NO, YOU'RE NOT SINGLE BECAUSE WOMEM ONLY LIKE "BAD BOYS", YOU'RE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE ANY CONVERSATION SKILLS OR AN INTERESTING PERSONALITY.
First of all, just because you're nice or respectful, that doesn't mean the woman is going to sleep with you.
Also if you're just "nice" to get something in return then you're not a nice guy.
I don't understand why would any sane person blame the woman being abused or manipulated instead of the abuser.
AND you know what's disgusting?? The same people worship players, fck boys and ask them for tips on how to be toxic and manipulative.
PEOPLE THAT ARE MANIPULATIVE AND TOXIC ARE CALLED THOSE THINGS FOR A REASON. NO MAN GOES AROUND WITH A "I'M AN ASSHOLE" MARK ON HIS FOREHEAD.
Ps: if a woman says she wants a "bad boy", 99% of the times she just means a charming funny confident dude with maybe a bike and a jacket at max, who treats her like she's precious. THAT'S LITERALLY IT.