u/CommercialExciting43

Context:me and my soon to be wife now live together after me making the decision to move to another state to seek out the relationship. After almost 3 years of a solid relationship I definitely think it’s cracking and theirs little worry on both ends.A few weeks ago we had a little argument and she told me the “spark” isn’t as strong right now but she wants to fix it before said wedding. My issue is at my job “delivery driver” I had an interaction with another female and have not stopped thinking about it since (happened 9 days ago). Let me clarify it wasn’t a flirty or date type of action but it was enough talking and interaction to where now I look at her at work before my routes and even smile at her time to time.During work or outside of work my minds been hanging over the thought of her for randomly what if and unreal scenarios. I even have had dreams about said girl from work as well.Ive asked friends about this and said situation and all just said im stressed and am looking for an person to pick too to avoid my at home stress. Can someone possibly explain to me maybe what’s making me feel this deep about just some random female I barley talk too at work and see. Thank you in advance