I [21NB] need advice with new potential relationship
hi, this guy [21M] and I [21NB], let’s call him Jordan, have been talking for about 3 weeks. I’m neurodivergent and romantic relationships make me anxious because I cannot tell if someone is flirting with me if my life depends on it. I have NO EXPERIENCE in dating or any “talking” stages what so ever. I literally have only had close friends up until Jordan. we met on a dating app and then started texting on another online platform from there. on the dating app he set his preference to “short term, open to long term” on what he’s looking for in a relationship. we have been on two dates so far, and we are going on our 3rd date on the 22nd. I have expressed that words mean a lot to me (more so during arguments), and he has been verbally affectionate towards me. (not in a love bomby type of way) I have also asked what a “short term” relationship means to him, and he said they typically last 2 weeks. which honestly didn’t really answer anything. I wanted to hold his hand during our second date but chickened out. he opens doors for me without me asking, and insists on paying for meals. he’s interested on my thoughts and opinions about certain things, and adds onto the conversation from there. I have no idea on what to think or how to ask him on pursuing a long term relationship. I’m trying to “feel things out” but I’m very terrible at that. I do feel comfortable talking with him about topics I would usually bring up with my close friends, but I’m aware romantic relationships are more than comfortability .