Hello! I recently had the balls to go up to one of the girls in my lecture who I've been interested in for a bit but never really got to talk to her much. One day we were chatting and I realized she had a lot of the same interests. I got her number and asked if she wanted to get coffee before class on day and she enthusiastically agreed!
First date was super casual but went great (no physical contact). At this point I also found out she is leaving in 2 weeks from now to go back home (4hrs away), then after that is doing a semester abroad in another country so I realized I didn't have a lot of time.
She was the one that next asked when I was free. I was going on a trip but she asks if I am free right after the trip which I say yes to. Then she follows up with a text that day asking if I'm still good for today and she wants to do something casual like watching a movie at someone's place (at this point I know I am in).
Long story short but the next 5 hours we spent together were so fun, and we were so compatiable. Eventually we go back to mine and start snuggling up together for the movie. I eventually go in for the kiss after 30 minutes and we start making out. After about 5 min I try taking off my shirt and she says she needs to go back home right now (it is late at that point and she does have a 9am). I immediatly say I can drive her back and I give her a goodbye kiss (she initiates it too), and she says she will see me in class in two days.
Here's the wierd part: I don't see her in class that day and text her if she's coming or not. She responds with "No, I'm pretty busy until I leave for (hometown)". I then say no worries and that I'll catch her around before she leaves, and now it's been a week and she hasn't responded and I haven't seen her since.
I'm really confused what happened. Things were going so well. Did I take things too fast by attempting to sleep with her on the 2nd date? Then again we were already making out so going from that to taking my shirt off is not a huge tranisiton (and I was not pushy). I'm worried she thought I was only there to sleep with her. It's also possible she realized she was leaving in 2 weeks and didn't want to catch feelings/commit before she left.