u/CommissionIcy7626

Hello everyone!
I have been trying to get a new job and some $$$ flow and my attempts have been seemingly futile? I am someone that if my spells don’t work quickly, I let the steam die and move on. I have done spell work in the past that I have felt worked well. Im never quite clear on where my spells go wrong or right.
I recently did a money spell with salt to clear negative energy towards money flow, sugar to soften resistance, rice to represent prosperity. I used an open safety pin to represent precise direction.
For my spell in order to get a new job, I used roses to boost my charisma, basil for luck, sugar for sweetness and again to soften resistance, lavender to ease anxious feelings, black pepper to ward off bad luck, and I used purple amethyst to clear mental fog. I did my own personal chants with each and let them go once I was finished.
The job search has been going badly. I’m getting nervous because once my contract expires I will be unemployed. Any tips on how I can improve these blends? Very very open to suggestions.

Hello! This might be long but please bare with me:

I am a 30 year old woman & one of my closest friends 30f is someone I have known since 8th grade & we’ve been very close since around 12th grade. I’d say from 9th-11th grade, she wasn’t nice to me a lot of times, & depending on who she was with, she could be a downright bully. In 9th grade I remember her telling me I had a huge nose & a different time she said I needed to brush my hair more. She blew me off a lot, treated me like a dork sometimes, and kind of just sucked as a friend. Idk why I even stuck around in those days tbh bc she wasn’t nice to me but I did.

Anyway, we became a lot closer in like 12th grade, her circumstances changed a lot, her mental health was bad, we went to the same college, she got sick & I was there for her. Since then, she has been a good friend. She is understanding, considerate, and kind. I would say genuinely she is one of my very closest friends. The other day though she slightly referenced something mean she did to me as a kid, & it dawned on me she has never once acknowledged how mean to me she was growing up. Idk I love her but it really bothers me, especially her saying I have a huge nose because it is a life long insecurity of mine. Should I confront her? Or just let it go bc she has been such a great friend for the past 12 years. Advice please if you were in my shoes?