u/Common-Bluebird-9626

I'm M got friendzoned. How can I get her to accept the relationship? Ladies please help🫴

I'm 21M. I recently got crush on a girl who is my classmate, but didn't thought deep about it. Then later I started noticing that she was also looking at me(most were awkward instant look aways), I didn't even take this as a serious sign. One day she came up to me and initiated conversations, she was a bit nervous around her(rubbing her neck, ava kaal tharai la padala) and I was even more nervous than her. We talked a lot for 1 month mostly over chat, she initiated conversation many times and told many things it felt natural, so I decided to confess because I didn't want our relationship to be just friends.

She rejected me and told she was looking for just friendship and she is in love with her ex lover till date. The rejection was very graceful and she didn't disrespect me a bit. I later told her we can't be friends and she understood that. It's been months after rejection I still catch her looking at me with that same Awkwardness🙃

What really happend here?

1. Was she interested in first and decide to friendzone me latter?
2. Did I thought kindness as love?
3. Did she use me for attention?
4. Or anything other than this....

Please let me know your thoughts, I'm really confused and is there any possibility to reconnect with her? I want her as my life partner. Romba nalla ponnunga ava🥲

Do girls ever confess or propose their feeling first? I've never seen or heard of it.

Idha poi generalize panni vachu irukanga, pasanga dhan first approach pannanum nu, ponnunga choose pannanum nu.

Let me know what you think. Pengal wonga karutha sollunga please.

l've been minding my business for like more than 6 years, never forced myself to be in a relationship. Recently I got a crush on a girl. She too gave many clear signs of attraction towards me. We talked for a month and I decided to confess to her because I don't want our relationship to be just friends. I did, she rejected me and told she saw me as a friend. I feel like she was attracted, but wasn't ready for the commitment. After the rejection, I told her we can't continue as friends. Even after the rejection she is still giving those signs and being awkward around me. Isn't it a waste of time to have just a crush on someone whom your not going to share your life with?

I see alot of post relating to the commitment issue with women. Is it really true girls?