My roommate keeps using my groceries and acting like I'm the weird one for noticing
Bought a rotisserie chicken on Sunday. Came home Monday from work and like a third of it was gone. Asked him about it casually and like not even mad about it but he said oh yeah I had some, hope that's okay, as if he hasn't been doing this without asking for a while now. It is not okay. We have never once said groceries are shared. Our entire system is separate shelves in the fridge, separate cabinet with our names literally written on a sticky note on the door from when we moved in. This has been happening for like 3 months now. My oat milk goes down faster than I drink it. A whole sleeve of my bagels gone last week. I bought the expensive eggs once and watched him scramble four of them while I was sitting at the counter. He just said "I'll get you back" and NEVER has. Last night I was playing slots on MyPrize from my phone in bed and I could hear him in the kitchen and I just knew so i got up, walked out and he's standing at the counter eating my leftover pad thai straight from the container. He looked at me like I was the weirdo for catching him. I already have money saved up to break the lease and move out early because of stuff like this and a hundred other things. Im genuinely about to lose it. Today I labeled everything in the fridge with my name in sharpie and I know its petty but I dont even care anymore. How do you live with someone who acts like basic boundaries are a personal attack on them (: