u/Common_Version5307

Complimented a girl’s hair randomly, got her number, now how do I ask her out without making it weird?

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So I’m in college and a few days ago I randomly saw this girl while going home. She had really nice curly hair and for some reason I actually went up to her and complimented it. I’m usually not that confident, but she reacted really sweetly, so I asked for her number and she gave it to me.

We started chatting and honestly the conversation flowed way better than I expected. She recommended me her haircare products, we joked around, talked about college, cities we lived in, cats, leaving our hometowns, etc. She also seems pretty thoughtful/philosophical sometimes.

The vibe doesn’t feel dry or forced, but I genuinely can’t tell if she’s just being friendly or if there’s some interest there. I don’t want to rush it and make things awkward because we’re in the same college.

I want to ask her out in a casual, comfortable way — maybe coffee or something simple — without sounding too intense or random.

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u/Common_Version5307 — 8 days ago