u/Competitive-Ant5613

So I have it all (yay me!). Haven’t had a Lupus flare in years, or at least I think so, but chronic fatigue has been a constant in life.
How do you manage all this? I’m going crazy trying to figure out if it’s a shutdown from the autism, chronic fatigue from Lupus, low estrogen - low dopamine from PCOS or WTF. So what do I tackle?? I’m already on Vyvanse and it has helped a lot keeping me functional taking care of the home and 3 boys 8 and under (the oldest AuDhD too), but I’m having a super hard time just being happy and not melting down with any small inconvenience, which are many with the 3 boys chaos.
Anyone on the same boat?? How does all of these diagnosis play together??? How are you staying sane?