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Any Other ENFP Feel Chronically Single Because Most Connections Feel… Shallow?

Hi everyone
Quick question for other ENFP : do you ever feel like you’re just meant to stay single forever?
I absolutely love human connection, meeting people, and having conversations, but I struggle to feel genuinely stimulated by most people. If there isn’t an intellectual connection, I lose interest pretty quickly. Meanwhile, it seems so easy for everyone around me to get into relationships naturally, while I feel stuck in the same place.
The problem is that most people don’t interest me enough “on the surface” for me to want to dig deeper, so I sometimes wonder if I’m unintentionally missing out on meaningful connections.
I’m 25 and often feel out of sync with other people when it comes to this. Does anyone else feel the same way?

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u/Competitive-Band3145 — 5 days ago