u/Competitive-Day6146

I'M NOT SURE IF SHE HAS A CRUSH ON ME

You will not believe what happened, this is insane. So I'm leaving the school to go for cram schools and prepare for my entrance exams and I posted in my wp status that tomorrow will be my last day in school. My classmates were upset about it and said that I shouldn't leave and that the class wouldn't be the same without me and obviously that made me feel more appreciated. But then a girl from my class texted and she kept saying "please don't leave" and my name like three times. We started chatting and it took us an entire hour to chat. I was simultaneously chatting with like two people plus managing a minecraft server for the bois. That same girk gave so many clues that when connected together shows how much she appreciates me to the point she basically has a crush on me. She just started bombing me with positivity, started counting the fun times we all had, I started to talk extra sincerely and so seemed she. She kept telling me how important I was and that they didn't want me to leave. It almost felt like lovebombing so I'm concerned. But then she suddenly asked "since you're leaving, what do you think about me?" And I froze. I genuinely said idk and said ig you play the "her name" role very well and then I said compared to other classmate girls I had, you are ideal. I wasn't too specific but I just lightly praised her. She was wayy too interested in everything. More happened btw and I only realised this when I sent my friend a screenshot and she started hyping me up. After like 10 more minutes or so of chatting, I asked the same question to her. She gave me specific answers, saying that I was considerate and never liked laughing at other's mistakes and she sent like 5 messages explaining this. This means she cared enough to look at my personality and admires my personality. She said and this isn't all I could tell about you : "I think that this isn't even enough" "I can't put my thoughts into words". If you ask me, I'm not exactly in love with her, but I really like her overall and she's a green flag to me. Since the first day of school I saw her and thought yeah I'm not getting to talk with her am I? She looked way out of my league. She's short but that makes her even cuter, her face is really pretty as well and she always looked so cute to me, so I always thought that she is not gonna be the one. The this monday after I injured my wrist last week I went to school and everyone was happy that I was okay, in a break she called me and asked me why haven't I replied to her in instagram and I said that I haven't entered instagram since I downloaded it (it was like 2 weeks since I downloaded Instagram again) and she said that I was still posting stories so how's that possible? And I said that I post statuses on wp and they automatically get sent to my insta story and she understood it. After that interaction I thought "huh did she really wanted me to chat with her that bad or is it exactly the same thing everyone was doing?" And then I thought about it and lowk realized that she's like wayy to cute. It's like my romantic emotions are finally working again and now I can have feelings. After that I saw her in a dream where she teasingly said "kiss me then" and instead of being embarrassed I was like "fine" and we accidentally kissed. After waking up I was flattened, like blushing, the moment I looked at her my heart wanted to race but it's like my heart wasn't sure if this was the right thing, I'm still not sure if I still love her or not but if she does and she ends up telling me, I'm not rejecting her. Now be honest with me what are the chances that she has a crush on me? She gave off way too many signs and I've never got those signs from any other girls like ever, and she probably didn't say the same stuff to thers as well since she doesn't talk with boys much (only with the ones that approach him first and those are my classmates who have no romantic intentions whatsoever. Be realistic yet understand the situation, she doesn't want me to e leave but so do others, she was more desperate but I might've mistaken. After that, give me some advices and also tell me like a few questions I could ask to be sure if she has a crush on me. My female friend recommended to ask her stuff like "do you think I'm good enough for someone to like me" or something but less obviously.

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u/Competitive-Day6146 — 15 days ago