My son is 11, is not interested in doing any kind of sport or music or anything at all. when he was 9,10 he started exhibiting feminine walk , he played around with girl makeups and naturally gravitate towards girls as opposed to boys. we think he maybe gay , which is totally fine with us. But here's what i dint understand, every girl group he went to he ended up with fights and they would shun him , few boys he used to play since childhood started teasing him about his sexuality and isolated him . I tried very hard to put him in different activities like basketball, vollyball , martial arts , hes just not interested in them and eventually ends it. He just likes to watch TV . If i don't give him TV he just sits by himself . Hes genuinely not interested in any sport or activity. he likes to do solo things like go for hike. or ride bike. He wants friends and tries to talk to boys a bit but easily gets rejected from groups. I saw couple of therapists and had him evaluated for autism hes normal, he dosen't hurt anyone but he does say awkward things to grab attention and look cool . Hes not very good in studies either. He dosen't wanna talk about it even to therapists , he knows we want him to be more social , but i am afraid hes missing all the life lessons, Is there no future for him?
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