Question (NSFW)
My BF doesn’t stay hard for longer than maybe 3 mins…He’s great at oral so that’s the only way I get to orgasm…but regular sex is not pleasing to me so I never orgasm that way. He can’t stay hard even tho he really is in the mood, so he has to masturbate and then he’ll finish on or in me. It’s all very weird. He smokes a lot of weed like ALOT (not kidding like 8-10 blunts over the course of say 5 hours) and I was wondering if that has anything to do with it? I’m not a smoker so I have no idea if what I read is true but I heard some say excessive weed can cause erectile dysfunction. He’s a very kind man we laugh a lot and have fun…and we really do love each other so sex is not a deal breaker but I’d like to figure out if there’s anything we can do. He won’t stop smoking weed so that’s out.