Seeing passed loved ones when others are passing
So this may sound crazy, but I feel like this is the best place to post this. I fully believe in mediums, and there was a point in time where I wanted to be one however my family has steered me away from this as they say you never know who you might encounter or what you might encounter.
When my dad was passing away we were all in the hospital room, we being my family. There was at least nine of us in there from cousins to aunties to his kids to his wife, my mom. I was in and out of sleep, but my mom was fully awake. My dad had started talking to somebody but a lot of my family was confused. My mother said that she very clearly saw my grandfather, my dad’s dad, standing at the foot of the bed, speaking back to my father. While I know people who are passing see their loved ones before they pass, how could my mom see him? She swears up and down that she is not a medium, but this is also not the first time this has happened to her. When her father was passing, she saw her grandmother, my grandfather‘s mom a lady who she was never close with come for him.
Beyond that she hasn’t had much experience but does claim when family members visit her they do so in dreams with once, even a family member who was still alive visiting her in a dream, except she didn’t know who he was. When she eventually saw him in person, he was confused as to who she was also or at least that’s what he claimed. In the dream it was who ended up being my grandfather’s older brother telling my mother that “Your father is too hardheaded. Tell him to go to the doctor and get checked out” this was before my grandfather ended up in the hospital and it was weird to her because at the time my grandfather was still in Trinidad and my mom has been living in Canada for a while.
She does say, however, that she always had a special bond with my dad‘s father, and that he loved her like she was his own kid, which probably explains why she was able to see him in that moment, but other family was in the room and did not see him.
Is there any explanation for this like maybe she is kind of in tune, but not fully in tune. Please let me know what you think especially if you are a practising medium.