r/Mediums

Hello all want to share my experiences with you all. I have always believed in spirit and had many encounters so I am not afraid. Recently in work mostly, I work in a hospital I always feel someone right behind me to the point I moved thinking someone wants to get past.

It does not scare me it is just odd but it's always in work I'd also like to open up more to spirit but I am being held back by physical pain and depression. Being fully clairvoyant would be a dream. Anyway thanks for reading. X

I'm interested in becoming a psychic or medium. Is there any guide or anyone who can guide me through to how to become one? Any books or anything that is useful when it comes to this?

Hi! My only sister Josefin died in november 2023, all the sudden from pulmonary embolisms. She died alone. Noone had heard from her in a day and i tried to reach her at home but she didn’t answer the door, so i had to call the police and everything. Complete chaos.
It took some months before i began to dream about her because i slept so poorly.

The dream was that i woke up at my parents house because i heard a piano playing downstairs. My parents woke up aswell. We went down to the room where the piano was but it was quiet. Suddenly i feel this warm sensation run through me, just pure happiness and joy and love. Somehow I knew it was my sisters spirit. And then it dissapeared. We looked for her in the dream and suddenly we found her at our dining table at her usual spot. She just simply said: There you are! And smiled.
We sat down. We chatted about something random but then I asked her what she was doing there and if she remembered she was dead.
She said she knew she was dead.
But that she was well and that we shouldnt worry or feel sad for her. She was in a good place. She said it wasn’t that bad to die like she had imagined. It was nothing to be afraid of.
I asked her if there is a heaven but she just smiled and said that she is not allowed to say anything. I asked her if i could hug her but she said no thats not possible. She also said something about that she wont come and see us if we were sad. It upsets her.

Then i woke up but i felt happy all day because of the dream.
I’ve never had such a dream again. Only disturbing ones where i see her but i don’t make it in time and she just vanish into thin air before i can touch her. And they just leave me with a bad feeling all day.

What do you think? A visitation dream or just my mind trying to create some closure because i never got to say goodbye?

I miss her very much. I have been thinking much about her lately again. I hope she didn’t suffer in her final moments but it still hurts so much that she was all alone and couldn’t call for help. She had no chance. She must have been so scared and it hurts me so bad just thinking about it.
I hope she knows how much i loved her even though i was bad at reaching out to her sometimes. I wish i could change things and have spent more time with her but its too late for that. I hope she knows i regret that. I just thought we would have more time together.
We went to see a medium some months after it happened and the medium said that my sister had asked why i had not come to see her more often? It was such a hurtful thing to say to me and seemed so unlike my sister who was always very kind and diplomatic. Maybe she said it to make cherish the people around me more or something..

How have souls talked about religion? Is it necessary? Do they have thoughts on which religion is a better one to practice?

Hi! I’m very confused and just need help with questions

So my childhood love passed 2 years ago but we weren’t able to see the body.

For some reason everything in me keeps telling me he’s out there it’s almost like I can feel him, I don't know if i should listen to my insides or it’s just me not wanting to accept it

If he is gone how does the afterlife works? He only visited me once and it was a couple months after he passed but it was like he was so angry with me!

Why hasn’t he visited me again if he’s gone? Do people actually remember people in the afterlife

Her body is being buried elsewhere. I keep freaking out thinking her spirit will get lost trying to get back to me. Please help? 😢

Hello, I’m very unsure where to start with this but last year I went to a medium, she was able to tell me the name of my loved one immediately and was very helpful with reassuring me about my family member who has passed away.

Half way through the session she starts telling me that I’m a medium. I was like, absolutely not, I assumed she was trying to make me book to come back to her or something I’m not sure. So I’ve thought about that a lot but just got on with life.

Fast forward to today, I’m at work and I meet this lady and she tells me she’s a medium, we chat about her experiences and she suddenly tells me that I’m a medium. This one is weirder to me as I wasn’t paying her, this wasn’t a session, she had nothing to gain from telling me this, she was just this random lady at my work visiting someone and we were having a conversation.

I told one of my friends and she thinks I should explore this, I don’t know how to do that, I can’t afford to go back to the lady last year who initially told me. I’m not sure what to do, or if I even believe I am one? I fully believe in mediums i just don’t think I have that ability. if anyone has any advice on how I can explore this more, I would appreciate it.

I just want to know what usually happens to spirits, I was thinking of contacting a medium but Id rather let her rest. Ive been praying for a sign to know if shes okay my mom and cousins are devastated, especially my mom since she couldn’t say her goodbye we’re near Chicago and she lived in Mexico. Luckily they buried her with my grandmother who passed 3 years ago. I asked my cousins and other aunt to say farewell for us when they buried her, would she be able to know? What happens to most spirits?

Have only seen 2 references to this. A faery book and some medical condition. But I'm intrigued to know if anyone else has felt this and what they think of it. Is it or should it be associated with any kind of spiritual/occult phenomena for example?

I fell asleep on the sofa. Long day! If I fall asleep there I usually wake up early hours disoriented and it’s annoying because I struggle to get back to sleep .It’s rare but happens.

Someone put their entire hand on my shoulder and gave me a little push - I instantly opened my eyes from sleep expecting it to be one of my teenage children waking me to also send me to bed 😂

No one was there. I instantly got up turned off the lamp and said right ok I’m going to bed. Got in and fell straight to sleep.

I have a lot of deceased members of my family and it could have been any one of them. Almost a knowing inside me like yep I’m off to bed don’t worry . I can’t believe I was sent to bed at 33 years old by a spirit family member 😂 I had a good laugh in the morning - I’ve also had a reading a long while ago where I got told off slightly about getting my backside in gear and getting some things finished I needed to - so they are very very much present - daily! Some louder than others!

After all this time I’m still their little girl who needs put to bed 😂.

I’ve never ever been touched by a spirit in a way I have recognised like this - it felt human it was so strong - hence the assumption someone was there in front of me.

Just wondering if this is common? Has anyone else experienced similar?

I’m in tears of happiness as I’m typing this, but I wanted to share this in hopes that it gives someone else hope too.
Every morning, I pour myself a cup of coffee and talk to my mom and sister. I write to them about what happened the day before, my grief, the progress I’m making, the setbacks, the happy moments … everything. I know they already know what’s happening in my life, but this is more for me. It helps me feel connected and keeps that line of communication open.

This morning, while I was writing, I jokingly complained to my sister about my mom saying “oh she never sends signs. You tell her!"
About 10 minutes later, a friend contacted me and said she just had dreamed about my mom. In the dream, they were walking and talking together. It was sunny, peaceful, and surrounded by beautiful green trees. It was such a happy dream.

It took me a few moments to realize this was my mom's message to me.
I completely broke down in tears … happy tears. All I could do was to say “thank you. I love you”
If you're waiting for a sign from someone you love, don't lose hope. Sometimes they find the most unexpected ways to remind us they're still with us.

I recently lost my son, just eight days after his 25th birthday. I visited a medium about three months later. It seemed from what she was receiving from the spirits that my son did come through, although he indicated that he is still learning. It was my first visit to a medium, and I was so overwhelmed with what she was sharing that I forgot to ask several questions. 

I know that I can’t ask questions specific to my circumstances here, but I am hoping to ask some general questions with the Hope that you all may be able to provide some answers. 

My first question is how soon do I need to wait before I can go back for another reading? How long might he need to become stronger?

 My other questions are more general about how it works when people crossover. I saw on this Reddit that someone said spirits can read our minds. Is this accurate? If I’m sitting and thinking of him can he read my mind? Can he hear me talking to him? Can he hear me talking to him wherever I am or only In certain spots? Can he be with us, his immediate family, and also visit other family members in different states as well? When we visit his grave, and we talk to him there, is that a weaker or a stronger connection? Or is it the same? 

I know it takes time for a spirit to gain strength and to be able to come through, but are they able to witness their own funeral services? His service was about two weeks after he died, and a lot of his friends spoke about him. I’m wondering if he would have been able to hear them? Or if he would’ve still been in transition? 

How can I open my mind so that I may be able to see any signs that he shares when he’s strong enough to do so?

 I hope that these questions are general enough that someone is able to answer them and that I’m not violating any of the rules. Any insight or explanation of what it is like for him now would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much.

I have always been able to tell when something is gonna happen before it does or I can feel when someone is no longer alive I have never been wrong it freaks me out but I listen to and it never been wrong

Today, I attempted to invoke my mum to just casually speak with her. At the start, I could feel it wasn't her. I gently asked about who it was, and the spirit introduced herself as 'Jennifer'. She and I, she confirmed, hadn't met in this life, which truly stunned me. This was my first, random spirit.

Jennifer was 52 when she died from cancer. She was reaching out to me because she was 'sad'. She found me because, 'You are a good man'. Hearing that floored me. She later said that she was married with two kids. I asked her how I could help her happiness, and she suggested music. So, I played my 'Liked' music on random select and a song I've never heard played, called 'Passion Femme'. I later contacted Mum, who said that the best thing I can do for Jen, was to pray for her happiness. I hope that helps her pass through to eternal love.

Well last night was the first night I think I may have experienced a spirit hug me or touch me. I was awoken at midnight, very peaceful and I noticed that my TVs red standby light was off —this only started happening in the last week (turns off for just a few minutes, maybe once or twice during the nighttime and I usually wake up when it happens). I have the same brand of tv in every room and this is the only one doing it. So my timing of waking up happened to be when that light was out for a couple minutes. Then I felt this weight on my chest, like a firm hand or hug. It wasn’t anything scary like the night hag. It was just as if a cat sat on top of me for a minute. After it let up the light came back on. I tend to doubt myself (it’s in my natal chart) so I just want opinions. I feel it’s possibly the LOML that recently passed and we’ve already communicated. I pray at night and tell him I want to feel him, see him or have more dreams with him. Maybe a prayer answered.

So I am new to the subreddit and actually going to be very new to this whole community so please have some patience if I say something that is common knowledge or wrong it's not intentional I have been ignoring this side of me for awhile anyways to the main point I use to be able to see the future as a kid I had dreams that were years in the future I'm talking exact details and I don't fully remember them but when I come across the moment I have seen before it comes flooding back with intense clarity it has helped me out several times I have never had control over this and no longer get them since started lucid dreaming but now I can sense things and it's getting stronger mostly spirts I'm very aware of this since my apartment complex has quite a few spirts I'm unaware of what this means or what I would be consided and would love some advice on this this is getting long so if you have questions on what the extent I can do I will reply to comments and dms

my boyfriend recently passed away, yesterday. he broke up with me 2 days before he took himself away. i want to know if there is a way i can speak to him or communicate with him in any kind of way, candles, whatever i need. please tell me if you know anything. i will also be checking dms.

i have experience with witchcraft in general but i have never attempted to do this, i absolutely want to do this

I don’t live in an area where foxes are incredibly, incredibly, rare but I have seen about 100 just this year so far which is a beyond unusual amount. And in the past 2 years I’ve seen at the least 200-300 of them. And this is spread out over 100s of miles, urban, suburban and rural areas. And through every season, I am not just seeing the same lil guy a bunch of times. They are always the red variety. (Which is kind of funny because I have red hair.) and odd because grey foxes also live in my home state it feels like I should’ve seen at least 1.

Believe I know this next part is going to sound insane, I think it’s crazy too but well after something happens 60 times in a row it’s just not something you can deny anymore.

When I see foxes on my left side I’m usually about to get good news, making a bit more money, random bout of luck, or reconnecting with someone im close to. In the past 2 or so weeks I’ve seen 3 foxes on my left hand side and every time it was just minutes before a friend I was having issues with was about to contact me

When I see foxes on my right side something bad is about to happen to me, years ago about an hour after seeing a fox on my right side I was involved in a car crash, then again just months ago I saw one and was again involved in a car accident, a year ago I saw one on my right side and right after got the most sick I have ever been in my life. Most recently 4 or so days ago after seeing a. Fox on my right side I had a massive falling out with a “girlfriend”

I could go on and on with different examples of the right/left rule it has happened so many times I just can’t deny anymore thst I am genuinely receiving signs/warnings it would just be to coincidental for this to happen 100s of times like that with near immediate results.

I’m just wondering what this communities take on this will be. It’s certainly extremely bizarre and in asking multiple people I live around, people that I’m friends, with or people who come around the places as I do, they’ve all told me they have seen a fox once maybe twice in their entire lives. And after having looked into it in my state there hasn’t been any crazy habit loss or overpopulation or anything like that.

This has been going on for so long, I genuinely would like to know why this is happening? What it means? “What” is doing it?

Title: Opening my third eye after 6 years, but I also have a mental health condition. Looking for advice from experienced practitioners.

Hi everyone,

For the past six years, I’ve been on a spiritual journey, and I feel like I’m approaching what I believe is the opening of my third eye.

At the same time, I’ve recently confirmed that I have some underlying mental health issues. Because of that, I’m aware that if I experience anything unusual, it could look like a mental health episode. My current belief is that it may not be entirely one or the other, but I also recognize how important it is not to assume every experience is spiritual.

If things intensify around September, I fully plan to seek professional mental health support. I’m not looking to replace medical care with spirituality.

What I’m hoping for is to privately connect with someone who has significant experience with third-eye or kundalini-related practices and who approaches these experiences responsibly.

I’d appreciate practical tips on staying grounded, distinguishing spiritual practices from experiences that may need clinical attention, and how to navigate this safely alongside professional care.

If you’ve been through something similar and are comfortable chatting privately, I’d really appreciate hearing from you.

Please be respectful I’m genuinely trying to approach both my mental health and my spiritual beliefs with care and responsibility.

Thank you.
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My sister just got married this past weekend and I was the MOH. It took place at a lavender farm just down the road from a cute bed and breakfast type hotel. Should have been the most peaceful time ever, especially since my sister is Type A all the way and pretty much handled everything before anyone could lend their hand in the process as MOH's, bridesmaids, etc usually do. But the whole entire time I was there, my emotions were constantly flip flopping, I had a panic attack for the first time in ages and wanted to go home at 2 am, cried multiple times.

I have realized/came into my psychic abilities within this last year, so I dont really know how to manage it, and Im still putting together pieces of my experience that are related to the ability. That being said, it really has been exhausting trying to manage myself out in public without absorbing all the energy around me. Marshalls for example is literally my personal hell, I walk through there and go between every single emotion at such rapid paces and I can only handle it for around 30 minutes. I had a drinking problem for a few years after college and that seemed to be a way for me to cope with the anxiety and the feelings I couldnt explain, and I dont want to resort back that, but it has sucked wanting to put myself back out there in social situations and struggling because of these feelings I have. I thought for a while I might be autistic, and sometimes I still do. But I dont have a problem talking to new people or being around people, it's just very selective, and theres really no way to explain the criteria because im not even sure what it is other than just a sense of knowing. Im sure a lot of you guys can relate to this experience, and since im only 25, I would love to gather any and all wisdom from you all on how to manage this. From what I have read when looking into mediums, I am clairvoyant and clairsentient.

Side note: Another thing I experience too are dreams that are consistently in the same place, for a few nights in a row, or weeks, and its almost like each night builds off the last, I am always finding out something or seeking an answer. And horrifically, a lot of the times its related to crime. And im gonna sound insane saying this but sometimes I wonder if there are spirits around that are trying to show me what happened to them. I KNOW I KNOW it sounds bATSHIT but I cant help but think it! It feels so real. Like im in the persons body. This is a recurring thing and the situations are always different but equally as damning. Does anyone else experience this/ have an alternate explanation as to the reasoning?