u/Competitive-Pea9991

Hi enm chat.

I’m a woman in my 30s and I’ve realized with lots of therapy and self reflection/ vulnerability.. my preference is ENM. (Ah I said it!)

I don’t see myself in a monogamous setting with someone for the rest of my life. I don’t Know why this feels so polarizing but i feel like I’m defective. all of my friends are getting married and having traditional relationships and I just feel out of place.

I guess I’m posting this because I‘d love some support and guidance in this journey. Will I ever find a partner that is ok with this? Is there a specific dating app? Or am I completely over thinking this and it’s not something I need to share on a first date?