Is it okay to lend money to my boyfriend even though he didn't ask?
My boyfriend is a working student and has no parents (both deceased), and he is supporting din his younger sister financially. He really works hard and I'm proud of him at aminado naman siya na he's still learning how to budget his money properly.
This cut-off kasi nagkaroon ng dispute sa sahod niya tapos sakto pa na birthday ng kapatid niya kaya ayun, kinulang siya sa budget. I tried offering some help pero ayaw niya since hindi ko naman daw problema yun, at nahihiya daw siya na magmukhang walang pera sakin which I don't mind naman. Kaso ngayon alam kong madami siyang need bilhin for a school activity at nag aalala ako na wala siyang pambili. If I offer help again, alam kong idedecline niya lang ulit so plano ko sanang magsend nalang sa bank acc niya then tell him na bayaran nalang niya sa sahod niya. Is this a good idea or hayaan ko nalang siya na gumawa ng paraan to buy the things he need? I wanna help him in a way na hindi ko matatapakan pride niya. Binigyan ko naman na siya ng food as baon sa office para less gastos sa kanya.