r/AskPinoyMen

Kapag sinendan kayo ng long message, binabasa nyo ba lahat?

I know there are some who really don’t read it. I just wanna hear your thoughts. What if there are times when we really need to say something long? (Let’s say verbal isn’t an option) Is it better to do 1 sentence then enter and so on? Hehe

Edit: To add, napansin ko kasi pag sinesendan ng long message, most of the time yung last 2 sentences lang yung inaacknowledge.

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u/Little-Rookie-1412 — 2 hours ago

Totoo ba na di nyo pinpost mga asawa nyo kasi "pinoprotektahan" nyo sila?

How true is this? This is the reason I got from my husband. Please let me know if I'm being gaslit kasi it really doesn't make sense.

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u/throwawaccccccc — 8 hours ago

Totoo ba na guys love to brag about their girlfriends?

Sa mga lalaki dito, kapag mahal na mahal niyo ba yung girlfriend niyo, natural bang gusto niyo siyang i-brag sa friends, workmates, or family? Or hindi talaga lahat ng lalaki ganun?

Curious lang if pagiging proud ba yun or depende lang talaga sa personality.

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u/BroadSalamander8695 — 10 hours ago

[Questions] Manager hired me as escort but cannot be reached now and didn't pay yet. What would you do?

We met via FB he chatted me before and somehow convinced me to try meet up and bj nya ako in exchange of 3k. That's my first time to try that kasi malaki din naman offer. Then nagka girlfriend ako so mejo nag distance siya. Nung nag break kmi ng ex gf ko, he invited me to attend his team building, syempre may kasama na ring bj ulit yun. Kaso sabi niya days bago yung event, hindi niya ako mababayaran agad, kasi ganito ganyan. July pa raw. Pumayag pa rin ako, kasi kailangan ko rin naman at mabait naman siya, mukhang maayos kausap.

Come team building, okay naman yung feedback ng lahat, sabi rin niya nagustuhan ako ng team nya. He's very thankful.

Kaso weeks ago, till now, hindi na niya sineseen messages ko, tapos lagi siyang nag popost sa fb, pero ngayon pagtitignan ko yung profile nya, wala nang new posts (baka inedit nko s settings) then hindi sumasagot sa chats ko at hindi rin maring sa messenger.

I know dapat di ako pumayag sa delayed payment, pero first time ko lang kasi matry yung ganitong kalakaran di ko inexpect na marami palang baklang mananamantala kahit na manager na sila sa international companies.

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u/No_Extent_2309 — 7 hours ago

Does everyone at the smoking area actually smoke, or some just hang out with their coworkers?

My boyfriend says he just keeps his coworkers company. Should I believe him?

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u/baeneni — 12 hours ago

Topic suggestions sa beer house?

Na curious lang…Aside from the normal ilang taon kana?
Kamusta ka naman?
Magkano room dito?😅

Baka may magagandang tanungan o kwelang kwentuhan kayo 😁

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u/FaithlessnessHappy86 — 12 hours ago

What SPECIFIC personality traits or behaviour consistently attract you to a girl, and why do those traits matter to you?

What specific traits do guys like in a girl?

Not shes kind, smart or what. I want SPECIFIC answers.

For me, i find guys attractive when they can be responsible and serious but still can joke around or have humor that everyone can relate to.

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u/Ancient-Ad5259 — 12 hours ago

Does a woman's nails matter in a date?

I've read it sa ibang sub that a woman is seen to be prepared for a date if she has her nails and any type of body hair fixed for it.

So in a guy's pov, does it really matter in a date, first or a continued one?

Edit: If it does matter to you, what's your preference?

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u/Calm_Wrongdoer1011 — 10 hours ago

as a guy worth it ba mag hoe phase?

For context, I’m an NGSB college student, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence whenever I hear my friends talk about their sex experiences.

Part of me wonders if it’s worth trying it, even if it’s with a sex worker. But at the same time, my morals don’t sit well with the idea of having sex with someone when there’s no emotional connection.

Is it really worth exploring just for the experience? I’d really appreciate some honest advice

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u/Ambitious-Trifle-171 — 11 hours ago

How can you tell if he's not straight?

I met this person who is gwapo and we clicked, as time goes by I like him but it made me question about his gender, some people making jokes about him as gay.

What are your signs that a person is gay?

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u/Sea_Blueberry_5023 — 17 hours ago

My gf told me ayaw nya daw ulitin namin yung ginawa nila ng ex nya and I felt off??

So for context, me and my girl were talking during our early stages and umabot sa point na we were asking about sexual experiences.

She told me she and her ex bf has secretly had s*x while katabi yung friends nila matulog, so I asked her if she would do it with me, and she said no kasi natry na nya before sa ex nya.

So idk why parang nailang ako or I felt sad? I can't describe pero I was thinking ba't ayaw nya? Kahit hypothetical question lang.

Edit: we do the deed at least 1-2x a day so we're pretty active, ayaw nya lang daw yun so it seems off for me

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u/No_Tone_6304 — 18 hours ago

Please need help. Paano ko ba mapapatunayan na totoo ako? Na love ko sya?

Ewan ko ba, sobrang gulo ng utak ko ngayon. Kakapal pa ba ng mukha ko o titigil na ako?

Dito kami sa Reddit nagkakilala ng guy, tapos last week lang, nagkalakas ng loob kaming mag-meet in person. Sobra talaga yung nararamdaman ko para sa kanya, alam nya yun before ka kami nagmeet. Pero ang sakit lang kasi tuwing sinasabi ko na love ko siya, parang dinedema niya. Ayaw niyang maniwala. Feeling ko iniisip niya na mabilis lang ito o kaya dahil sa Reddit lang kami galing, baka trip lang o fake news.

Pero totoong-totoo talaga feelings ko. Kaya lang, hindi ko na talaga alam kung ano pa ba ang dapat kong gawin para ma-prove yung sarili ko.

Gusto ko na syang puntahan sa kanila. Nung nag-meet kami, nasilip ko yung driver’s license niya, kaya nalaman ko kung saan siya nakatira. Ngayon, naisip ko na pumunta sa mismong bahay nila para harapin siya. Gusto kong makita niya sa mga mata ko na seryoso ako, na hindi ako nagbibiro. Ok lang kaya?

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u/Artistic-Cry7324 — 15 hours ago

Would you want her to make the first move?

if a woman finds you attractive and you're her type, would you want her to approach you first and tell you she's interested?

or do you still prefer making the first move yourself, like asking for her number or asking her out on a date?

curious to hear your thoughts. 👀

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u/watshiwa-star — 16 hours ago

Does straight men have the possibility to become bi/gay??

I'm just curious since there are some straights who became part of the community.
Are there really possibilities of becoming bi/gay when you are straight?
What about those so called "straight" but they have cross dressed/trans jowa, does those men consider themselves straight?
Also, do straight men can be in love with bi/gay guys when they found their type or somewhat what they are looking for in terms of their jowa?

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u/FishermanPlenty1277 — 18 hours ago