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Hello mga bro! San po kaya pwedeng bumili ng legit and affordable Engagement Ring? Medyo doubtful po kasi ako and wala po ako alam for this kind of things

Do you prefer someone na type niyo (look-wise) or someone you have a connection with

Is it your non-negotiable if dapat type na type niyo yung girl at first or can you guys manage not to be attracted at first but overtime grabe yung compatibility, connection, and everything else.

I work in a bpo industry even though marangal naman medyo nahihiya parin ako since yung mga kadate ko mga lawyer or engineer. Feeling ko I'm too small for them at saka namimili ba kayo nang preference work for girls na nakadate niyo?.

For those out there na Sexually Active and use your own bed at home for the regular deed

How do you protect your bed from constant exposure to Oil, Lube and Body Fluids?

My partner and I invested in a ₱26,000 bed from Uratex and thinking about it now, we don't really know how to protect it from the fluids/potential stains mentioned above... we don't wanna throw a 26K bed after a few months, this was supposed to be an investment for better sleep because we work at night

Context: Ang weird ba if I would greet him on his birthday? We've been in no contact for months na, after he told me na he doesn't feel the same way.

Hindi naman ako galit or bitter sa knya. Pero siyempre nalungkot ako dun sa sinabi niya (sino ba naman hindi hahaha) but I accepted and respected his choice. After nun, hndi na ako nagparamdam sa knya.

But every now and then, he would react sa mga story ko (kaya naisip ko we're cool on his end din). Naalala ko bday nya now, okay lang ba to greet him? Aside dun sa he doesn't feel the same way, yung last msg dn nya kasi was, sorry kung umiiwas daw siya sakin that time, kaya parang nppa isip ako if I should greet him or wag na. If mag mmukha ba akong kawawa or what.

Thanks po!

So yeah, I have this condition called Hypospadias. And I'm not sure if a lot of men are familiar with it. Can search them but it is where the peehole is located below the head of, you know, and mine caused to bend down too, which called Chordee. Felt really different and insecure growing up. But I think I'm good now, I just accepted it along the way. Though, can't help but thinking that I might be alone or just stay single because of it, in a good way. I'm not sure how everything will work if ever. Got some ex girlfriends before but I didn't have the courage to mentioned it. Also, I don't have a close guy friend to talk and be open about this. I just want to take my shot posting if there are guys here also have it or know about this condition? Hope everything is okay on your end. Thanks

Some women aren’t looking for a man to complete their lives. Let's say she's already genuinely happy, at peace, and doing fine on her own before he came along. Then he entered her life, made her emotionally invested, and then eventually left her hanging.

This is not because you necessarily want her back, but because you know she was happy before you came along and you became the reason she had to pick herself back up afterward.

Do men ever feel guilty about fumbling a genuinely good woman, when he knew from the beginning that he couldn’t give her the kind of relationship, consistency, or affection she needed?

Do they ever look back and think, "I should have left her alone if I knew I couldn't give her what she deserved”?

Just want to know if this is normal. The guy I’m dating says nakaka-adik daw amoy ko pero minsan feeling ko hindi naman ako mabango? Kahit hindi ako mag-deo amoy pa rin sya ng amoy. Hahahaha nasa nature ba yun ng guys?

signs or anything,, don't be too generic pls

Also follow up questions

1. How to know if a guy find you pretty? I mean hindi sya necessarily type ka, but still they find you pretty or attractive ganon.
2. What words from a guy you should trust and not?

Hello po, for you guys do you think nag ooverthink lang ako and di ko na bigyan pansin yung convo nila? Yung manliligaw ko kasi is may babae siyang na friend from work before na until now po mag Convo parin sila kahit hindi na sila magka work. Open naman yung manliligaw ko sa akin like pinakilala ako online (since ldr pa kami) pero yun nga minsan nababasa ko na nag chachat sila sa messenger about sa mga hiking or trails since sila magkasama before nung same place pa sila, pero kasi ngayon medyo na uncomfy na ako kasi yung mga chat nila parang may mini updates tapos yung girl nag sesend ng pictures or videos tapos minsan yung laman ng video is while ga trail yung girl na naka sports bra lang.

Ayoko rin mag padalosdalos ng confront sa manliligaw ko kasi nga manliligaw ko palang siya and I want to ask your opinion po if normal lang ba ito or should I do something about it po?

Yung palagi din sinasabi ng manliligaw ko is dapat isipin mo what if ikaw naka experience nyan, gusto mo ba na yan yung ma feel mo? And in my case di rin naman nakaka experience yung manliligaw ko ng ganyan kasi hindi ako ganyan mag bigay ng updates sa mga lalaki ko na friends. Also nag rereply din yung manliligaw ko sa story nung girl, nagbibigay sya ng compliment like "Gorgeous daw kasi nagpa kulay ng hair (at that time nanliligaw na sya sa akin) and sa IG nya napansin ko nilalagay nya ako sa story nya pero naka hide dun sa babae and sa Facebook naman ay di ako minamyday hahaha

Naguguluhan na po ako kung ano ba talaga, should I tell my manliligaw to make some boundaries dun sa girl or sadyang normal lang yan na pakikitungo?

Please po wag ninyo akong I attack po huhu kasi di ko alam ano I aact since first time ko rin pumasok sa ganito (NBSB po kasi ako)

Not crush or admiration but GENUINELY like a girl.

Wala lang. okay naman sakin most of the time. pero minsan maiyak na ako sa sobrang kulet hahahaha. like gumagaan ba loob niyo pag napipikon na ako? chariz hahahaha

I was diagnosed with ADHD, Bipolar, and Obsessive Compulsive Personality 6 years ago. It was hard because I was in my early 30s during that time. I vowed to myself to keep on working on myself and heal from my traumas in the past. It has been six years and I am already healed but I am still struggling with my ADHD, Bipolar (with the depressive state; I no longer get angry too much because I have lived solo and embrace peace that God has blessed me for 3 years). I have been working so much for my healing and managing my mental challenges and it has been exhausting already. I wanted a clean house but I don't have the energy to clean, I save money so that I could pay for a cleaner. I guess that I got tired already during the past few years of being hyper independent and juggling everything(managing my condo, taking care of my lola, career, hobbies, travel) and all the tragedies in life. Lately, I consulted my psychiatrist. She told me that I have to accept the reality that I am no longer the girl who used to be very active and who can do everything because I am also aging. I have been dating men and I only mentioned to one guy that I am suffering to a mental challenges but it turned out that he was not serious with me. From then on, I never tell to guys abouth my mental health. Iyon mga na memeet ko lalaki, hindi sila good sa mental health ko kaya di ko tinutuloy ang journey. I have been praying for a calm man and a good communicator kasi hindi na ako sanay sa mga sigawan at away since I lived solo. It is hard because I am already emotionally healed but the challenges of ADHD, Bipolar, Obsessive Compulsive Personality is a lifetime. I am taking medications by the way. There are times that I appreciate my isolation because people misinterpret me like lazy. I do not know how to disclose to a man about my situation. I am still learning about my mental challenges and I have already accepted who I am. I gave myself a timeline to work on managing myself even though matanda na ako. Tumigil na din ako sa dating app and I focused on myself now. But I was thinking kung dumating na ang opportunity na may mag-approach ulit sa akin, papaano ko sasabihin sa kanila ang struggles ko eh sa mga kaibigan at pamilya pa lang pagod na ako kaka-explain. Parang after all these years, iyon doctor ko lang nakakaintindi sa situation ko at sarili ko. To be honest pagod na ako sa situation ko pero I need to keep on going. Sa buong buhay ko, pagod na ako mag-alaga ng mga loved ones na may sakit (half of my life spent on that) at sa panahon kailangan ko na alagaan sarili ko, inabot na din ako ng pagod. Pero kailangan. I keep working on myself to be a better woman and good wife in the future. Lumapit ako dito kasi gusto ko ng point of view ng lalaki. In my heart I have the desire to have a family but sometimes natatakot ako . Kung makita ko na iyon lalaki na gusto ko pumasok sa relasyon papaano ko sasabihin sa kaniya ang kalagayan ko? Kung, ikaw nasa sitwasyon na na meet ang isang tulad ko would you marry someone who is like me?

May mag kakagusto ba sa 5'1 guy na skinny fat? Wala din facecard , di rin makinis, dry pa ang buhok at di rin maganda teeth ko. May naka exp ba dito na muka talagang salagubang pero nag ka gf padin? Share nyo naman how u got a gf! Thanks!

Good day sa inyong lahat! Tanong ko lang sana, paano nyo nasukat yung daliri ng partner nyo for wedding ring, gusto ko na kasi sana ag propose sa partner ko, kaso nahihirapan ako sa tamang sukat ng daliri nya. And baka may ma suggest kau na bilihan ng singsing, so much appreciated po, around 10-20k sana na ?

Maraming salamat po!

Hi! My husband is 5'11" and weighs 107kgs. Bulky and muscular arms (naglilift). Sumusubok maging healthy pero may non-alcoholic belly fat padin po. I just want him to feel good about himself by getting clothes that will highlight his broad shoulders and arms.

Share nyo naman po sang shop kayo bumibili. Salamat.

kapag ang tingin nyo na pangkama yung babae, di na magbabago yun? kahit na sweet at thoughtful yung girl, wala nang pag-asa na magbago tingin ng guy?

A guy friend and I have been talking more consistently lately (dunno for sure if this is headed anywhere else beyond just friendship but idrc we just enjoy eo’s company), then he randomly dropped and shared in passing that he has insecurities about his body.

Is this one of those things na you just listen to it and not really pry or try to make someone feel better about? Anything I can say to “help” with it?