u/Dense_Cancel4238

Some women aren’t looking for a man to complete their lives. Let's say she's already genuinely happy, at peace, and doing fine on her own before he came along. Then he entered her life, made her emotionally invested, and then eventually left her hanging.

This is not because you necessarily want her back, but because you know she was happy before you came along and you became the reason she had to pick herself back up afterward.

Do men ever feel guilty about fumbling a genuinely good woman, when he knew from the beginning that he couldn’t give her the kind of relationship, consistency, or affection she needed?

Do they ever look back and think, "I should have left her alone if I knew I couldn't give her what she deserved”?

About me:

5ft 48kg
Medyo pangit lang ako kaya wag mag-expect
May sense kausap minsan
Mabait ako pagmabait ka din

About you:

35yrs old up (para magkawavelength naman)
Hindi bastos
Kahit anong gender mo ok lang basta madami ka kwento
Kung lalake ka, sana walang jowa o asawa - ayoko maging collateral damage please lang

Chat lang or call kung bet mo para mas ramdam yung kwento. 😄
Pwede din meet pagmay time para magkape. SFW lang kasi yun lang kaya ng powers ko. Quick intro naman pagnagchat ka. Ayoko magbuhat ng convo, pagod ako. 😅

A lot of people still say that meeting someone organically is the best way to build a genuine connection. But these days, approaching a stranger in public seems a lot more complicated. Some people feel it's too risky or uncomfortable, so they stick to dating apps or social media instead.

I'm curious to hear the men's perspective:

What keeps you from approaching a woman in person even if you're genuinely interested? Do you think modern dating has reached a point where approaching strangers in real life just isn't worth it anymore?

I'd love to hear your honest thoughts and experiences.

About me:
39F from Angeles
Sakto lang ichura, pang “uy familiar ka ah” level
Acidic na nagkakape
Naliligo araw-araw (non-negotiable, may tubig po kami)

About you:
35+ sana para same wavelength, hindi same trauma 😌
Any gender, basta hindi bastos (basic human decency cutie)
Madaming kwento, ako yung taga “weh? ano nangyari next??”
Nagkakape din, di naman requirement na inaacid ka din.
At syempre naliligo din. Kahit once a day, laban na yan.

Disclaimer:
Pass sa ONS, FUBU, FWB... alphabet pa lang pagod na ko
Auto-block sa d*** pics, di yan rare Pokémon, wag niyo na i-send 😭