r/AlasFeels

Thank you Reddit

2 years ago under a different reddit account, I commented to a post regarding of a person who felt like she will never have someone who will love her. I commented on it with a friendly tone. No intentions just genuine friendship.

I slid to her dms to encourage her. Little do I know - that message from Oct 13, 2023 will be the start of my relationship with someone I will love forever.

Last weekend, I proposed to her. She said yes.

Thank you reddit for everything.

Hahhahah just very upset about my situation. Shs rn and nakapasok ako sa dream school ko na free of tuition, kaso kngina 15k for books and 2 pairs of uniform? Parang nangangarap lang ako ng gising sa situation namin ngayon.

May kapatid ako. My father earns around 14k per month. My mom is unemployed and I can’t get a job yet. The school is really pursuing me too, since glowing talaga yung credentials and grades ko (only with highest honor sa jhs ko).

Nangyari na to sakin when I passed zobel and pisay before, pero hindi ako tumuloy kasi alam kong hindi namin kaya. I settled for my former public school (which is more shitty than good btw).

Ayun, short rant lang, mahirap kasi maging mahirap, jahaha

EDIT: I already rejected the offer! ‘Twas nice having something to hold on to pero wala ganoon talaga

ang daling sabihin na okay na ako. na nakamove on na ako sayo. pero heto ako ngayon, nagmumukmok pa rin. i still miss you. hinahanap ka pa rin ng puso ko and despite ng lahat ng nangyari, mahal pa rin kita.

deep inside me, nag aantay pa rin ako na bumalik ka.

I'm healing and focusing naman sa sarili ko. pero i want you beside me talaga.

i settled na nga kahit di mo ako pinapansin basta ramdam ko ang presence mo eh.. so bakit ka pa umalis?

Miss ko na sya but I don't know if I should keep reaching out pa since hindi na sya nag rreply.

i miss ü 🥺 kumusta ka, hubby?

Kasi I have been there, where I just loved this person, because I thought what we had was special. We were so similar in many aspects and I see a lot of myself in him. Unfortunately, his ugly parts were just too much for me. Araw2 ba naman akong umiiyak because of him. And he is also uncertain with me.

Until such time na talagang everything became clear to me and umayaw na ako. I have to choose myself or else I will just end up waiting for him forever to change in which he will probably not kasi takot sa commitment, responsibilidad and actual change.

Now that I'm here in Germany, suddenly my eyes opened wide. The possibilities are endless. I already had funny organic encounters(andaming gwapo hahaha), I experienced kindness and goodness, my place is nice, I feel like God put me here as a loving gift, and I realized that I deserve so much better. Na hindi ko kailangan mag settle just because I was lonely and thought he was the only chance I had for the kind of soul connection I was looking for.

So sa mga naging halimaw umibig diyan, I see you, I understand you. It would sometimes feel like forever, na nasasaktan ka sa taong hindi ka kayang mahalin ng buong buo, but it will end. If you really want it to, and have the strength to choose yourself, it will end and it will only get better, i promise.

Just broaden your horizons, discover hobbies, see the world and you will see how small your world was with that kind of love or whatever it was. Do everything for yourself muna. Pero don't force the healing and the moving on syempre, it will happen naturally as long as you're intentional. Tahan na, it gets better 💗

Gustong gusto ko na magkasariling bahay! Ang hirap maghanap na pasok sa budget ko. ☹️ Sa mga solo living diyan, do you recommend na mag rent muna? Parang hindi ko kase kaya ng palipat lipat ng location since living with parents ako since birth until now. Gusto ko sana bumili na para mag settle na sa isang place. ☹️

I'm 18f, had a few talking stages (2) but never a real relationship, Most of the people I had talked to are miles away or rather they reside abroad js casual flirting nothing real. I want someone who will accompany me in everything, something real not just a short-term. I want to be with someone that will have future plans with me.

I met up once with one of my casual flirting lang, I was pretty much excited to get dolled up but then it dawned on me na it wasn't a date. Just a casual talk and flirt, but I still went anyway.

When will I ever find someone na I will get excited to get dolled up for ? Someone who also finds a long-term rs not casual flirting, someone who has plans. Some might say that I'm way too young to think like that but well I never play about my future.