u/No_Shock_2935

yung minsan ka na nga lang magmahal, sa putanginang avoidant ka pa matatapat. bwiset talaga!!!!

I recently broke up with my scared dismissive avoidant partner since her stonewalling, shutting down, and pulling away drives me crazy.

However, we both know that we love each other and that our feelings are genuine.

However, I want her to meet me halfway, in a way that I could respect her boundaries when she needs space or take some time alone, but she doesn't want to communicate with me like a proper and normal adult.

I don't know, I guess I am still attached and clinging on to the potential or hope that she will change for the better and regret that I left her.

I just want to go back to the way it was when things were so good.

I really miss her.

How do I treat her properly without losing myself?