u/MatchaTizzz

Hello po, for you guys do you think nag ooverthink lang ako and di ko na bigyan pansin yung convo nila? Yung manliligaw ko kasi is may babae siyang na friend from work before na until now po mag Convo parin sila kahit hindi na sila magka work. Open naman yung manliligaw ko sa akin like pinakilala ako online (since ldr pa kami) pero yun nga minsan nababasa ko na nag chachat sila sa messenger about sa mga hiking or trails since sila magkasama before nung same place pa sila, pero kasi ngayon medyo na uncomfy na ako kasi yung mga chat nila parang may mini updates tapos yung girl nag sesend ng pictures or videos tapos minsan yung laman ng video is while ga trail yung girl na naka sports bra lang.

Ayoko rin mag padalosdalos ng confront sa manliligaw ko kasi nga manliligaw ko palang siya and I want to ask your opinion po if normal lang ba ito or should I do something about it po?

Yung palagi din sinasabi ng manliligaw ko is dapat isipin mo what if ikaw naka experience nyan, gusto mo ba na yan yung ma feel mo? And in my case di rin naman nakaka experience yung manliligaw ko ng ganyan kasi hindi ako ganyan mag bigay ng updates sa mga lalaki ko na friends. Also nag rereply din yung manliligaw ko sa story nung girl, nagbibigay sya ng compliment like "Gorgeous daw kasi nagpa kulay ng hair (at that time nanliligaw na sya sa akin) and sa IG nya napansin ko nilalagay nya ako sa story nya pero naka hide dun sa babae and sa Facebook naman ay di ako minamyday hahaha

Naguguluhan na po ako kung ano ba talaga, should I tell my manliligaw to make some boundaries dun sa girl or sadyang normal lang yan na pakikitungo?

Please po wag ninyo akong I attack po huhu kasi di ko alam ano I aact since first time ko rin pumasok sa ganito (NBSB po kasi ako)

Hello guys naa mo nabal-an kung asa pwede maka pa print pero instead na sa paper mag print kay sa cloth siya? Kanang murag same same sa banner sa mga ga pop up bitaw

Hello guys! Basin naa interested, I'm selling my uniform (Pants) and naa ko 3 kabuok.

Waist: 25-26

Height: 5'3

Reason for selling: Ning graduate nako and dili na ma use

Problem/goal:

Hello po, I'm really curious kung ano ang lasa ng c*m ng lalaki hahahah, uuwi kasi partner ko sa Pinas galing work and gusto ko ma try na ang you know mag swallow hahaha pero natatakot ako kasi baka pangit ng lasa or hindi sya dapat I swallow hahah higa princess lang po kasi ako during intercourse namin.

Also any tips how to bj din na hindi awkward?

Hahah first time ko kas and ayoko na maging awkward

Problem/Goal:

Hi guys! So I just wanted to ask if too oa ba ako or what.

So ganito kasi yun, I'm talking to my suitor everyday through online kasi LDR pa kami right now and I truly understand him if hindi siya maka reply agad agad because of his work or if makatulog siya because he is tired galing sa work I really understand him.

Pero kasi binigyan siya ng break for 1 month so that means wala muna siyang work and kapag mga 1 hour siyang hindi nakaka reply then hindi naman ako na bobother kasi kasama niya yung family niya (Sa abroad kasi siya ga work) and alam kong nag bobond din sila. And nag explain naman siya agad sa akin kasi may pinapagawa na errands sa kanya, nakatulog, etc. which is walang problem talaga.

I told him about that na if ever may gagawin or feeling mo makakatulog siya if pwede mag heads up lang para hindi lang ako mag worry bakit hindi siya nakaka reply (kasi minsan inaabot ng 6-8 hours na hindi siya nakaka reply and it turns out naka tulog pala dahil sa jetlag) naiinis lang ako kasi we are in the middle of the conversation tapos biglang siyang mawawala and after ilang hours mag sosorry na naka tulog daw siya. He said sorry and explained pero minsan ginagawa niya parin yun.

Ayaw ko naman maging OA kasi alam kong naninibago pa yung katawan and body clock niya sa Pinas but a little heads up would be nice kasi never rin naman ako naging type na person na mag chat ng chat pag hindi nag reply so I just kept on bottling my feelings and tampo din.

Edit: How do I confront him about it? Kasi all I did pa was open up to him na ang tagal niyang mag reply pero wala pa talagang serious talk about it.

Hello guys, asa nindot laagan here sa CDO? or bahalag dili sa CDO mismo, kanang dili over hype hahah para lang unta chill chill and laag lang gud

Problem/Goal:

Hello po! I just wanted to ask, if dadayuhin or nag suggest ang guy na I vivisit ka niya automatic na ba nag mag assume ako na he would pay for everything or should I ask him?

He also told me na gusto niyang mag ask sa parents ko formally in person so automatic na may day na mag sasama kami with my family and gagala but then my family is curious lang since siya yung gusto makipag meet sa family ko and nag ask sa akin if my suitor would pay (Hindi naman po sa hindi gagastos yung parents ko but they just wanted to ask). I can pay naman rin pero I just wanted to be sure.

We made plans nadin if saan pupunta and may plans don na kasama yung family ko, so di ako sure if who would pay din (5 lang kami in total Kasama na si guy)

I tried asking him din pero inuunahan ako ng hiya at kaba plus diko alam paano I tanong, baka kasi akalain niya na pera habol ko sa kanya or baka akala niya ginagamit ko siya and things would go wrong nadin

Problem/goal: Hi guys! I need your advice, so there's this guy I'm in a situationship with and sadly I told him that we should take a break (Because he told me something na naka shokt talaga sa akin) and because of what he did I don't think that I am ready to move forward with him yet especially he didn't told me this after months of talking na. But I was kind of shocked to see how easily he agreed because from my experience and what I see in others, if a guy really likes a girl, he will find a way (like pursuing her more, or trying to give options like just taking a break or something like that).

And after that, his behavior changed, like he's not mean or anything but he replies very formally and sometimes I feel like he doesn't care, like there's no checking in or anything. In short ang cold niya

And before that, he told me that he would wait and if I'm ready again, he would be still be there for me and would wait and support me with whatever achievements and stuff I do, but with the way he's acting now.

Did I made the right decision by letting him go or if there's a chance for us again or if I'm just overthinking it?

Problem/Goal: Am I overreacting if ngayon ko pa nalaman na mag anak yung suitor ko?

So my suitor has been courting me for months and perfect po siya, respectful, gusto ma meet ang parents ko para mag ask formally to court me, and the type of guy na mafafall ka talaga. But then before that tinanong ko na talaga siya if may sabit ba or something tapos tawa lang siya and sinasabi na wala, but then recently sinabi niya na may anak sila nung ex niya pero yung ex niya may bago ng partner and matagal na yun (Di pa daw niya sinabi sa akin kasi at that time meron akong family problem and stress din ako sa school) diko sure if ano ma fefeel kasi part of me is di pa talaga ready sa mga ganyan and gagraduate palang ako (May work na kasi si guy) and knowing myself and my family is di talaga maganda yung ending but I'm at the point where na attached na ako sa kanya and grabe na yung pagka invested ko sa kanya and ang hirap na I let go so I don't know if valid ba yung feeling ko or too blind lang ako.

Di na talaga gumagana yung mind ko sa kakastress sa nangyayari.

Edit: To add lang po, the reason why hindi niya kasama yung baby niya is because nagloko yung babae tapos may ibang pinalit and yung family naman nung girl is nagalit sa suitor ko so ayaw ipa sama/Kita yung bata until recently lang