Do you prefer someone na type niyo (look-wise) or someone you have a connection with
Is it your non-negotiable if dapat type na type niyo yung girl at first or can you guys manage not to be attracted at first but overtime grabe yung compatibility, connection, and everything else.
My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he said he never really felt “butterflies” or that intense feeling people talk about when they’re into someone. He said he thinks he might not have been that into me because of that even though early days he pursued me and the way he act upon it is gusto nya talaga ako.
My ex and I had a genuinely healthy emotional connection. He described me as peace, warmth, home, and said he never had to pretend around me.
We clicked naturally, communicated deeply, and were best friends on top of being partners.
The problem is that during the relationship, he started struggling with his own expectations about attraction and types. He admitted that over the years he developed a very narrow physical ideal for women and realized that those expectations were affecting his ability to feel fully content in the relationship even though emotionally we connected deeply.
He kept questioning himself internally:
whether he was forcing things, whether recurring doubts meant something, and whether it was unfair to continue while unsure.
He eventually broke up with me saying I deserve someone who accepts me without question, and that maybe his gut was telling him something if he kept repeatedly nitpicking and doubting.
Do some people genuinely use the absence of butterflies as a sign they’re not in love? Or could this be more about confusion between infatuation and real attachment?
Do you think a person should leave a relationship when they experience recurring internal conflict like this? Or is this the kind of thing that could’ve been worked through while staying together and communicating openly?
I’m genuinely curious about outside perspectives because I can understand both sides.
I’m starting a dietary meal plan program/business and I’m currently gauging interest, especially around Pasig and nearby areas since I’ll be moving there soon.
I’m planning to offer customizable meal plans depending on your goals (fat loss, maintenance, or clean bulk). Before I fully launch, I’d love to know if anyone would actually be interested
Here’s what I’m planning so far:
🍱 Meal plan options:
1 meal/day (lunch or dinner)
2 meals/day
Full plan: 3 meals/day
Optional snacks (healthy snacks available)
💰 Estimated price:
1 meal/day: ₱120–₱150 per meal
2 meals/day: ₱220–₱280/day
3 meals/day full plan: ₱320–₱450/day
(Prices may vary depending on calories, ingredients, and customization)
🚚 Delivery:
Daily delivery within Pasig / nearby areas
Morning drop-off (for full-day meals)
Weekly subscription option may also be available
🥗 What’s included:
Calorie-controlled meals
Protein-focused options
Custom dietary preferences (low carb, high protein, etc.)
Simple, clean, and practical meals (not overly complicated gym food)
If this sounds interesting, would you be open to:
Trying a 3–5 day trial?
Giving feedback on menu options?
Subscribing weekly or monthly?
Also curious—what would YOU prefer in a meal plan if you were to subscribe? Budget, taste, or convenience?
Location: Pasig area and nearby areas