Basicamente o que diz o título. 72 países e todos os continentes antes do 24 anos, sendo a maior parte (pouco mais da metade) entre os 18 e 22 anos.
Ps. Eu já fazia faculdade durante esse período mas ainda não trabalhava até os 21 anos + minhas férias da faculdade eram longas.
That’s pretty much it. I kind of knew about it but did not know how young he was. He opened up to me abt it a bit more and that kind of made me realize how much having a bit of empathy while he is really trying and is doing a lot better might be worth it.
I was raped when I was 18 and for a few years the trauma made more prone to casual sex while single. I’d almost always regret it but I was lucky enough to have been brought up by very sex positive and non-judgemental parents in a way that I was able to address my behaviors in therapy.
He did not put it that way and I don’t know if he will ever address it as abuse bc there was "consent" but I feel like he was abused/sexually assaulted. He was so damn young.
It was the driver of one of his friends who "hired" her for him and two other friends while their parents were abroad. I feel so mad and so sad for him as the little kid version of him but also disgusted by how much toxic masculinity can cause damage to society in ways that we don’t even realize.
I was older when I was raped and as a woman I found more space to understand how much trauma that experience caused me and could potentially cause to my loved ones. IDK if he will ever heal as much as I think he needs and even wants to.
Ofc all the lies, cheating and the addiction itself are not good for me and I will not stay if it keeps happening, but learning about his past and first experiences with sex made me less upset with him and more angry about how our society is shaped. IDK… We’re both grown adults and shit but that kind of broke me and made me want to hug the little kid version of him.