My [20F] bfs [22M]family hates me because i asked him to unfollow a female family friend on social media

My boyfriend and I have a policy that goes for the BOTH of us that we do not follow people on social media who post provocative/inappropriate content, no matter who the person is/gender. We’ve been together for 6 months now. Now, this does not mean that he can’t follow female friends/girls he knows or whatever, just if they post REALLY revealing stuff, then no.Same literally goes for me. Some people could say this is controlling but it’s just a boundary we have in our relationship.
My boyfriend has a family friend that his whole family is very fond of. We will call her kenzie. He, his sisters and parents have known kenzie for years and she’s considered a sister/apart of the family to them. Kenzie is the bestest of friends with his older sister, Riley. Anywho, when my boyfriend unfollowed Kenzie on social media due to my request because she posts onlyfans type content. Kenzie texted Riley (my bfs older sister) and was very offended that she was unadded off of social media. Now, my boyfriend did not BLOCK her AND i’m not making him cut her off. In fact, they could meet up for coffee and i wouldn’t care, but kenzie took this very personal. So riley texted my boyfriend a long message, basically saying she couldn’t believe he would unadd her best friend and how controlling i am. She also said she was going to disown her brother for this. I was not expecting that type of response. So basically, this became a big issue to the point my brothers parents got involved and both of his sisters. My bfs parents kept telling him that he needed to apologize to Kenzie and add her back on social media. My bf refuses because he told them that’s it’s a boundary in our relationship and what she posts is just too revealing. and how i don’t like it. I ended up sending riley, his sister this message “ i want to say that ive heard about the situation thats going on with you, and oakley and your best friend. Sorry if i’m overstepping boundaries, and if this is not place to say this, I totally understand. Oakley feels really bad and devastated over hurting you. The reason why he unadded Mikayla is because she posts revealing/provocative content and he doesn’t want to see her in that type of light, since he does consider her a sister. I respect your concerns, even if i don’t agree with all of them. I hope you can understand that the choices I make regarding my relationship are ultimately mine to make. That’s just a boundary oakley and i have and no one is exempt to it. I’m not trying to create division between him or his family or his friends. I encourage Oakley and remind him to call you, his parents and Aspen quite often. I encourage Oakley to have family time without me there—however, he only wants to go if I come. I do feel like some assumptions have been made about me or my relationship that aren’t entirely fair or accurate. Any feelings I've had regarding certain situations have come from my own experiences and emotions, not from a desire to isolate him from anyone. It’s understandable that you may have concerns about me but I hope you’ll be willing to get to know me based on your own experiences with me rather than assumptions or second-hand information. Once again, i’m not reaching out to argue or be disrespectful, I just wanted to share my perspective on this since my name tends to be brought up in conversations i cannot contribute in. I know that a lot can be misconstrued through a text—this is not meant to be harsh or argumentative, you can always call me \[number\] if you want to talk so this matter can be discussed further. “
She blocked me on all social media and texted my bf saying she needed space and how we were no longer allowed to visit her in her home.
I don’t know what to do

TLDR;; Bfs family hates me because i had him unfollow a family friend off of social media due to inappropriate posts

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u/Completey — 7 days ago
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i’m currently on 20 mg of Prozac and for a while it was working because I have PMDD but lately it has not been working and it feels like I’m getting just as bad anxiety, depression and move swings as I have before I told my doctor this in a while ago, you had me increase my dosage to 40 mg however that made me get intense suicidal ideation to the point. I had to get off of it because I had intrusive thoughts about harming myself but 20 mg isn’t doing anything. I don’t know what to do.i was on zoloft 200mg and that also had the same effects.

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u/Completey — 2 months ago