u/Complex-Blood-3873

I’ve told some small lies recently and I honesty don’t know why I did it except it’s a trigger from childhood, like return to default settings. My parents never believed me at all ever. I was always the problem so I learned early on that telling the truth didn’t matter.

I’ve worked hard to fix that and stop but when I get upset or I get over stimulated in a disagreement or whatever I just say whatever or do something to just end it and move on. That is a problem. I own it but how do I help heal and recover the trust moving forward.

So my ex wife hates my current wife. We’ve gone back and forth in court.

There been defamation and use of information and false allegations / claims.

How do I get justice for me and my wife. I’m hurt. She’s hurt and I know we win in court. I have the evidence and such ready to go.

But I don’t know if that’s enough or if I need to blast her as well?

It’s cost mine and my wife’s reputation because apparently in court you can make claims and they are somewhat immune in divorce / custody battles. And I had been told to wait until that was concluded. It has now what can I do?