Need advice or more like a validation!
Hope yall don’t mind me 🥹. I need a solid advice on how to find a guy for myself. I’m a Punjabi female in 30s (mid), barely have any friends, not really dated cuz of strict family and now a lot of time has passed since my parents have been going through the marriage proposals over few years and no prospects yet. I have never been married, engaged or had done roka (well, never even talked to a guy or had a date from marriage proposals cuz my parents want to talk first and sign up for rishta pakka then I’ll be allowed to talk… cuz of that fear I say no to everyone) I signed up for dilmil and my most matches are younger guys. Dating app is kinda sus and any guy who has been swiping right on me for a while and when I swipe right back- they don’t want to talk (which is ok but still weird). I have been unemployed for sometime and i feel little insecure about it. I have done good in my life and I have no idea where to begin. I regret listening to my mom and dad. I feel that I have lost my good fit options. Anyone in the similar boat? Any advice or suggestions? I appreciate your input! 🙏🏻