r/PunjabiConfessionzs

I'm born and raised Canadian and my parents immigrated from punjab in the 90's. My dad is super traditional, and my mom is too, but more understanding of the fact that my siblings and I aren't super traditional, especially being born and raised here (we are still traditional, just not as much as my parents).

I am dating a white guy, we're both 28 and been together for 4 years now. My dad does not know about us yet but my mom does. My mom is scared to tell my dad and wanted to wait until my bf and I were 100% sure about getting married. That being said, I want to get married next year but due to financial and other familial hardships currently, we wouldnt be able to get married for another 2 years likely. And that is only because my parents are insisting on the whole wedding week, and inviting everyone we know. I already don't want any of that, I want the traditional wedding of sorts, but just like one day for the sagaan/jaggo, wedding (2 ceremonies) and reception. but anyway this is where i think I'm overreacting and being a bad child of my parents.

They obviously are not ok with me sleeping over at his house, even though my mom knows we went on a trip together last year, she is against me sleeping at his house (he lives with just his brother). I am so over my parents trying to control me and what i can and cannot do. I want to sleep over there and not lie about it (bc i do sleep over like every 2 weeks but just say its my friends or something). They'll be upset, but I almost don't care anymore. He is planning on buying a house within the next year, and since i will be finishing my phd and getting a job soon, i am planning on buying it with him so it is our home. We won't be able to get married before this, especially since owning property is more important to us than a $150,000 wedding. I also plan on just doing that and moving out of my parents house as soon as i can do that, but i would be the first person ever in the whole extended family./friends in our community to do that.

Am I overreacting by being fed up and just doing these things soon that will likely give my parents a heart-attack and possibly cause them to fight with each other? I hate that my life is on hold. Yes my parents have given me EVERYTHING - my education, my stuff, a car when i got my license, private school as a kid, played a bunch of sports, they pay for my food still etc. They have given me the entire world and still give me gas money and buy me things and take us on trip, but at some point, we have to live our lives don't we? I am growing so resentful of them, but at the same time i feel ungrateful and i feel bad for feeling this.

Advice pls...

Apparently Joty Kay and inkology went live and talked down on singhinks claiming he’s unsanitary and inkology mentioned his clients come to him to get their tatts fixed that singhinks did implying he’s not a good artist and is unsanitary

Joty further posted this clip of them bashing singhinks on her TikTok … man why is this girl always stirring the pot it’s exhausting and as for inkology he just sounds bitter and jealous name dropping and attacking another artist

But man Joty give it a damn rest!!!

What are your thoughts on the two tatt artists any experiences ?

I want to call out these two scumbags who I know watch these pages because they’re narcissistic serial cheaters. Jus Reigns‘ infamous cousin “cousin Vicky” has been cheating on his wife for years…. I know this because I was once friends with a couple of the chicas on his roster. knowingly cheating is atrocious and it’s the reason ive ceased my friendships with these girls.

I will admit I messed around with his brother who I found out was ENGAGED… but I for real did not know he was entangled with some poor girl because he was acting very single and thirsty. scum bags.

aint no way sangtar got a girl…surviving sangtar

Why are people so obsessed with these "influencers" and what they are doing? Posting pictures or stories about them?

Don't you people have your own lives to worry about, it's crazy how pathetic some of you are and your obsession about some random peoples lives who have no idea you exist.

This "influencer culture" is the dumbest shit to happen to the internet.

Not that long ago, I (21F) met a guy at a mutual friend’s wedding, and we’ve ended up seeing each other at all of the events since. I thought he was maybe 26 or 27.
He was into me, and honestly he’s my type. He has a calm demeanor but is also really fun, tall, and handsome. I’ve also heard from other people that he’s a good guy.

He asked for my contact information, and we’ve been chatting. Then I found out he’s actually 10 years older than me.

We haven’t gone on a date yet, but he said he wants to take me shopping first (there’s an area in my city that’s half retail chains and half independent small businesses, so it’s a fun place to walk around because there’s always something new), and then out for dinner.

He’s made a few suggestive, flirtatious jokes. I didn’t really mind because I have a playful personality too, but I guess I’ll find out on the date whether he was just joking or actually meant them.

This is the biggest age gap I’ve ever been in. Before this, the largest was six years.

What I’m confused about is why did he pursue me? Did we genuinely click and mesh well together, or was he mainly into to the idea that I’m a young, attractive woman he met dancing at a wedding?

From what I’ve heard and saw, a few women around his age approached him during the wedding to ask for his information, and he turned them down because he said wasn’t interested. And believe me, those women were all gorgeous and so sweet!!!

What do you guys think? I’m really on the fence about this. His age is honestly the only thing making me pause. Or more so his reasons for approaching me despite my age.

Damn just saw her ig story, why she bump into a random dad holding his kid while walking, then laugh about it with her friend and walk off instead of saying sorry. Major mean girl energy

Hey everyone! I know this is a long shot, BUT,

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Haven’t had a cleaning ever / Overdue for dental cleaning (5+ years)
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Hey everyone! :) Idk about you all, but it's eye-rolling to see the unwashed, chopped, broke and skid marked tighty whitey wearing incel of the week post another rant about FeMaLES having high expectations when these losers should just date each other!! :D Problem solved since clearly they're such catches ;)

 

I digress, what I wanna do is give people a place to yap about the positive things they've experienced this week and/or things they're looking forward to! Versus this sub being spammed by insecure and whiny little dudes complaining about who tf knows.

 

That could be anything from getting your favourite food, a good workday/week, meeting someone or a relationship going well, self-care, and so on. Anything and everything, so long as it's positive :)

 

I'll start... for myself, it's been a good week! Work has been busy but I've gotten sm done! ^_^ I have some conventions coming up that I'm looking forward to with friends and I'm going out with my person this coming week :)

love when influencers try to pretend like we’re stupid but forget their traces. looks like Taran is dating the uk influencer Indi Singh. They were in Miami together, La together and now Toronto. posting late and at different times does not mean we all are stupid lol