Just came across this girls page and people in the comments are being racist towards her man because of his skin colour then proceeding to call him a lower caste as if it’s an insult. Do people really care about castes these days that much?
I know this is not the normal thing you would see on this Reddit page but ever since I was a kid I had these big big stretch marks on my shoulders to the point where I could not wear tank tops, these are not small marks where I would not even think twice about, the marks on my shoulders are not even the type body builders get, I don’t know why this happened to me I’m not overweight nor too tall, I think this just happened with puberty and my skin elasticity not being the best. I’ve learnt to live with it and of course it bothers me here and there but at the end of the day I’ll always have them so I’m not that bothered by them, but I still am at the same time wishing I didn’t have them.
My main concern is that if I start talking to someone and/or dating someone, how do I bring this up to them? It’s not normal scarring and I’m afraid that it can change a persons perspective of me/ they would not like me or feel attracted anymore cause the marks are so weird. Of course I would not want to be with a person like that but my question is do you think it would matter to a guy or if I’m just too into my head about this. If the person you are talking to/ dating had big bold stretch marks on he/she shoulder that are bright red , would you care?
(BTW the reason why I’m conflicted with myself is because if the guy I was talking to had these marks I would not care at all, also I’ve never had a talking stage or anything so I’m really new to how people could react)
I have a trip planned starting this Wednesday to Arubaand I’m looking at the weather forecast and it’s saying cloudy and rainy, is it really going to be like that? I was wondering how the weather is right now for those who are there right now. I hope that the weather will be okay as it’s June and many people say that it is peak time to go ! I am really hoping for sunshine. Please comment if you know how Aruba weather works since sometimes the weather apps lie!
(THIS KEEPS GETTING FLAGGED IDK WHY)
I’ve developed a really strong crush on a family friend who’s 26M. We’ve known each other through family stuff for a while. His two brothers always talk to me like I’m their little sister, but he’s never had that vibe with me at all.
We snap here and there, and I’m always #1 on his Snapchat best friends list (I have premium so I can see it), even though we don’t talk constantly. It feels like I might be pinned. I also get the sense he sometimes asks his brothers about me or what I’m up to, since we don’t interact as directly as I do with them. I feel that way cause sometimes he’ll know things I never told him or he’ll expect me to know things about him (through his brothers ) but it’s like why would I know that unless he told his brothers to tell me or bring something up to me
This crush has kind of taken over my headspace. When other guys try to approach me I feel zero interest and ii genuinely just like him a lot. It might be limerence, I’m not sure.
The whole thing is very push and pull from his side When we do talk it feels good, but then I often won’t get a reply the next day. I have a strong gut feeling there might be mutual interest, but the inconsistency is confusing.
I’m trying to figure out where to go from here. Has anyone dealt with similar mixed signals from someone in your extended family/friend circle? Shall I try to get some clarity on how he feels, or is it smarter to focus on moving on? Any advice would really help. Very big gut feeling that he also has feelings in a way towards me too. But when we do start talking the next day i won’t get a response
Okay so basically I have this crush on my family friend (M26) and I’m (F18) I’ve started to notice that he is a very push and pull type of person, he has two brothers who always speak to me like a younger sister/ family but he never has ever said anything like that where it’s a brotherly sisterly vibe. We snap here and there and I’m first on his Snapchat best friends list (I have premium so I can see) but since we don’t talk all the time it makes no sense for me to be #1 on it. I have a feeling I’m pinned on it. I also have a feeling he uses his brother to know or see what I’m doing since me and him dont interact that often as I do with his brothers since they are like family to me. This crush has continued to take over my life to the point where when other men try to approach me I feel icky and I don’t even want to look at other men. I’m not a lustful person either I genuinely just like him a lot and perhaps it could be limerance but who knows. I’m just confused should I try and find out how he feels or is he just passing time and playing games? It’s starting to get very embarassing for me on why I can’t move on but I just have a very very very big gut feeling that he also has feelings in a way towards me too. But when we do start talking the next day i won’t get a response. Am I being too delusional?