u/Complex_Extent_6818

Not really NSFW , nor is this a serious conversation…but i just wanted an outside opinion.

(Context) I literally just saw this tiktok of a guy basically saying that the point of spending the night with a guy was to have: sex before bed, again in the middle of the night, & again in the morning before you leave.

While I don’t necessarily agree with that take, i got hung up on the “morning sex” part. That is to say: i don’t get the way morning sex tends to happen.

Like….i gotta pee. Immediately after i wake up and i do mean immediately 🫩 & if i try holding it in for the sake of sex, it’s uncomfortable & i don’t finish.

Normally, if i do go pee then I loose that sleepy, hazy, sexy feeling that would invite sex. Now, i’ve peed, washed my face & I’m ready to hit the farmers market not get back in bed lol

So my question is for yall:

1- Yay or Nay on the Morning sex?
2- pee or no pee before having morning sex?

I’m Going from OCONUS (Hawaii) to CONUS with a 27 day TDY a month before my RNLTD.

While on TDY, will my BAH remain the same rate as my loosing base or will I go into Transient BAH/ BAH II ?

The information I’m finding online says Transient BAH is mainly for guard/reservists & Finance has not yet responded to my CPTS request.

TIA

So i don’t mean harmful in the sense of it zapping your clit off or anything but harmful in the sense of over working your nerve endings and making it difficult to cum by other means?

I’ve been single for a little over 2yrs, with some sporadic dating/hook ups here & there, but lately I’ve been leaning more towards having it out with my Rose rather than actual sex. I want to say i’ve been using the Rose about every other day for maybe 2-3 months now and i started wondering if this could negatively impact me when i DO decide to start having actual sex again.

Like, with the intensity of the Rose toy or any vibrating clitoral stimulator, I’m starting to wonder if I’m causing myself more harm than good? And if maybe I should take a break from it. (This is also because when i try to just rub with my fingers, its not alot harder/longer for me to finish)

Or, am i just over thinking masturbating and I’m fine?

Semi-Unrelated: if yall could drop recommendations for a g-spot seeker type of dildo, that would be helpful. On a mission to find that little elusive spot & I’m certain my fingers cant reach.

🌞 TIA for any input! 🌞