AITA if I don’t feel like bonding my partner out of jail due to cheating
To make this a long story short me and my partner have been dating for two months I 23 female have been dating my partner 22 male for about two months he has four kids, and I decided to accept him for who he was because during the time that I met him, I was going through a really serious time of my life, and he was the only one there for me That same time that I was going through that I called my family members asking them for help and they couldn’t help he was the only one that had my back now I don’t just like him for being there for me I like him because he has a good personality. He’s kind to me, but he did cheat on me around a month and a half of us dating and the day that he got arrested, he had cheated on me the night before I didn’t know he was gonna get arrested. He got arrested at work And now he wants me to bail him out and if I bill him out, I have to go into my savings to do that and that’s not something that I’m sure that I wanna do so he thinks that I’m going to bail him out, but I really really really do not want to am I the asshole if I don’t bail him out because I caught him cheating before he got arrested Sidenote, the way I found out that he was cheating on me is because I had all of his passwords and things like that and when he got arrested, I haven’t spoken to him for like two days and he just called me on the third day because he got a free phone call from the jail, but during that time, I just went ahead and went through His Facebook and I saw that he had followed a girl and it was because me and him had gotten into a minor argument, and he has a habit of following girls every time we get into an argument the first time that I got into an argument with him was because I caught him texting his baby mama because she was asking for a favor and I got mad because I felt like he needs to communicate the times that he speaks to her because at the end of the day that’s still his ex not just his baby mama And I told him to leave my house when we broke up for a day and then I found a bunch of girls on his phone later then remove those girls now he didn’t go and have intercourse with them, but there’s always some female on his phone. I’m always finding some female on his phone.